Do you know why Chaoshan girls don't marry out?

--What date are you going home for the New Year this year?

Daxin said he is not returning.

Daxin, my brother, a Zhanjiang paper, he has a girlfriend, called Xiaoxue, a Chaoshan girl paper, they are college classmates, together for more than a year, talking about the New Year, Daxin began to worry because this New Year, Xiaoxue called Daxin accompanied her home, in fact, is to meet the parents.

Daxin condition is not bad, people look okay, the work unit is also relatively OK, but let him worry about what people often say "Chaoshan girls do not marry" rumors, so this in the moment he identified Xiaoxue, invariably became a hurdle in his heart.... ...

When I left my hometown to study, every time I heard people talk about Chaoshan girls, there was always a phrase in the back that said: "You Chaoshan must be looking for a Chaoshan"!

Yes, it's true that "no girl from Chaoshan will marry outside" is a common practice in Chaoshan, and many people even label Chaoshan people as "xenophobic", "discriminatory", "traditional", "foreigners", and "traditional". "

This is the first time I've ever seen the world's most popular TV show.

But what Xiaochao wants to say is that this is all superficial.

On the one hand, there is a historical and geographical reason for this idea of "not marrying outside".

On the map of the country, Guangdong is located in the southern border of our country, the north of the Five Ridges, the south of the sea, is a relatively independent geographical unit. This causes it to be closed to the inland, open to the outside world geographic location.

The Chaoshan area in Guangdong, her northwest stretches in the northeast to the southwest of the Lotus Hill system, cut off the Dayu Ling; Lotus Hill system is the Phoenix, Lotus Hill, Dabeishan, Xiaobeishan, Dasan Mountain, Nanyang Mountain, Sangpu Mountain and so on the continuation of the seven mountain ranges of the general term, the northeast and Fujian Province in the continuation of the Boxing Ridge, the southwest curved up to the coast of Huilai and Lufeng, and thus in the east of Guangdong Cutting into the eastern part of Guangdong, this is a relatively independent geographical area with a backdrop of mountains and the sea, high northwest and southeast, the geographical double closure, to a certain extent, prevented the direct interaction between Chaoshan and the Central Plains, and Chaoshan was gradually labeled "xenophobic".

With the development of science and technology and transportation, this geographical barrier is slowly being broken, and the deeper reason for "not marrying outside" is the love from the hearts of the Chaoshan people!

I remember that year, I received the notice of the college entrance examination, from the start of the journey away from home, before leaving, I grew up watching me grow up high uncle repeatedly urged me to college dating to look for Chaoshan, then always think it's ridiculous, then asked mischievously: Why? Answer: Because the Chaoshan people will not divorce easily after getting married (PS. The divorce rate in Chaoshan is really low) The baby in question came back with a question: Why? Because once you get divorced, you will be subjected to strong public pressure, family, moral and ethical pressure, making divorce a red line that every Chaoshan couple dare not easily cross.

In the past, in fact, I did not understand at all, just think that it should be the place is small, people's words can be afraid of it, now I slowly know, why parents hope you do not marry far away, why do you want to marry the Chaoshan people, because they understand this land, understand her culture, they want you to live in a place where they can see, and once you are hurt by any harm, they can protect you as much as possible, and even mobilize the pressure of public opinion to help you, so that they can protect you. Even mobilize the pressure of public opinion to help you.

潮阳妹纸芽芽是我的大学室友，肤白貌美，文静，乖巧，贤惠，永远是宿舍里面那个煲汤和搞卫生最卖力的（暂时先忽略小潮哈），那些年我们的胖班长看上了芽芽，百般示好，还拜托我当 lobbyist，富有责任心的小潮便趁机在一次宿舍卧谈会中挑起这个话题，结果却被泼一盆冷水。 The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California at Berkeley.

Bud said, the fat class president is not Chaoshan, the foundation of the first pass are not passed, she will not consider.

This is the first time I've ever seen a person who has been in the same position as me, and I've never been in the same position before. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.

Bud paused for a long time, before starting to say: since childhood, although the family has more children, but the father is the most loving her, what delicious are to her, that time to college or dad accompanied her, the night of the departure, she pulled a stool to accompany the father in the corridor to chat, the moonlight, she inexplicably found that the father has begun to grow old, from that time onwards, Xuan Zi told himself in the future, don't let the father to worry, to try to be good to the father. She also hoped that the person she would be with in the future would accompany her to be good to her dad.

The curious Xiaochao chased after the question, does it have anything to do with whether or not they are from Chaoshan?

Yes, because I don't want my other half even with the family communication problem, I don't want that kind of embarrassment, I also don't want to see mom and dad disappointed in the sample paper ......

Mom and dad because of love, so want to protect you, and the children because of love, and choose to fulfill ~

So, please respect and understand! this love!