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My position in the family is very low. How can I be valued by my family?

If you are in a low position in the family and want to get the attention of your family, you must communicate with your family and help them with their work. If you feel that your position in the family is very low and you have no sense of existence, it may be that you have less contact with your family, less communication and less understanding, so the relationship between them is not as good as you think. Family members do not recognize themselves and are not valued. I think we should try our best to change them. The first thing to do is to establish a correct concept. I think if you are in a family, there is no one who doesn't care about anyone. It's just that you have less communication with your family and know less, so you will feel this way. If so, I must try to integrate into this family, communicate with my family more, chat with my family more, share happiness together, talk about my pain together, and truly integrate into this family. Secondly, we should do more work. If you often appear at home, for example, do some things in life, such as shopping in the street, cooking at home, washing pots and dishes, washing clothes, mopping the floor and so on. Being one of them will make the family feel different about themselves. Maybe you didn't communicate with your family much before, so not communicating often will create some barriers. Through such family activities, your relationship with your family will become closer. Therefore, the low status in the family is not valued by the family, probably because of insufficient communication with the family. We must improve this situation. Because family members are our closest relatives, we must maintain good relations with them and let them know that we love them and want to integrate into this family.