What is the meaning of elegance

Elegance is a feeling that is difficult to express clearly in words, elegance or not depends on whether the conditions of elegance. But at least one thing is recognized, beautiful is not the same as elegant, and it is not a material pile up.

Elegant people have their own elegant characteristics, but also have **** sex, is self-confidence, wisdom, love.

Elegance is a fashionable term, and women generally prefer to be praised for being elegant rather than beautiful and sexy. Elegance is also a tool to torture women, men want women to be elegant, women also wonder why they are not elegant enough.

In fact, what kind of soil produces what kind of flowers, what kind of social civilization, there will be what kind of men and women. Chinese men are not open and broad enough, and feudalism has left a legacy of physically and mentally exhausting family relationships for generations of women, so there are physically and mentally exhausting Chinese women.

Despite this, elegance is still very promising and can be cultivated through one's own efforts.

The first step is to be casual enough so that you have time to read, improve your humanistic qualities, and in the process find a lifestyle that suits you and combines the best of culture. This requires years and years of care and nurturing. Of course, this elegance is also only their own subjective elegance. Objectively also need elegant conditions: that is, elegant environment and interpersonal. As the saying goes, "If you're close to Zhu, you're close to ink, and if you're close to ink, you're close to black. The environment has a great influence on people, you want to become what kind of people must be more and what kind of people to deal with. The most crucial thing is that the skillful woman can't cook without rice, without the support of money, the above are all empty dreams.

Man with money is not necessarily elegant, elegant people but must have a little money to support the continued elegance.

Life and survival of only one word difference, but show a very different attitude to life. Ancient people have long pursued a life of elegance, a life that seeks self-realization of personal values. Tao Yuanming is one of the poets who reached the realm of "self-realization" in ancient times. Su Shi said that he "wanted to serve, not to seek the suspicion; wanted to hide, not to hide as high." All his choices depended on his own personality, and he would never go against his personality to adapt to external things. Zheng Banqiao, the head of the Eight Monsters of Yangzhou in the Qing Dynasty, also said, "If my children and grandchildren are better than me, what is the use of leaving money; if my children and grandchildren are not as good as me, what is the use of leaving money?" They all lived gracefully with a transcendental state of mind.

This is true for the ancients, and it is also true for today's people. I Foreign Minister Li Zhaoxing in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs website to communicate with netizens, when netizens raised: "If people say you look not flattering, how do you think," he said with characteristic humor, "My mother would not agree with this view, she was proud of my looks. " This answer reflects the elegant attitude of the Minister of Foreign Affairs. Not long ago, when the People's Literature Publishing House asked Yang Jiang to attend a seminar on the works of his newly published anthology, she politely declined, and said profoundly, "I am just a drop of clear water, not soapy water, and I can't blow bubbles." Obviously, this kind of not for the materialistic temptation, not for the fame tired of the attitude of life, is how rare, how elegant. Has been the world's richest man Bill Gates, but also for waiting for the plane to help others look at the luggage and received a countryside old lady a dollar tip mile. For the rich but not arrogant, body expensive and can stoop, this than those pockets some silver, on the crazy as dolphins and crabs line of people, can be said to be yellow bells and kettle difference, because the attitude of life of the two are very different, the former elegant, the latter vulgar. Elegant life, it can be said that the material abundance is necessary, but privately believe that the spiritual abundance is more important.

Remember a celebrity said: even if you are so poor that you only have one piece of clothing, you have to wash it clean and wear it with dignity. In a sense, this is also an attitude of elegant life.