In life, parents are frugal and spend a lot of money on their children. Is this correct?

I think this practice is incorrect, because it is easy for children to form an unrestrained consumption concept and will not cherish what their parents spend money on.

This phenomenon does exist in families today. In daily life, parents manage their families diligently and make money hard. They don't want to spend a penny for themselves and keep all their money. But when children need to buy something, it is very expensive, which doesn't make much sense to them. Parents will choose to buy it for their children without any distress. In fact, if this kind of behavior happens frequently, it is very unfavorable to the growth of children. It's not that you can't buy things for your child, but that you can't give your child everything he wants. Otherwise, he won't understand the hard work of his parents at all, and he will only feel that this is what parents should do without any gratitude.

First, thrift is a virtue that should infect children.

Since ancient times, thrift has been a virtue. Of course, what we are talking about here is moderate frugality, and it is not good to be too harsh. Parents must choose the right way to educate their children. In daily life, parents' diligent and thrifty behavior habits are very good, which will definitely infect their children and make them cherish what their parents bought and understand that these things are hard-won.

Second, it is not correct for parents to be thrifty and spend money on their children.

No matter whether the family conditions are superior or not, it is very necessary to cultivate children to be thrifty. If parents see that other parents spend a lot of money on their children, they should follow suit. I think it is easy for children to form the psychology of comparing themselves, and they will make their own demands in the future, so there is no concept of saving. Anyway, others have it, and they must have it. This practice is extremely wrong. Parents should persist in thrift, help their children to establish this moral thought, set an example, pay attention to saving their children in daily life, refuse some unreasonable consumption and tell him the truth. I think this is the right way.