The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a problem for thousands of years. Why are many mother-in-law unwilling to be nice to their daughter-in-law?

I think on the one hand, it is bound by China's traditional thought. Many mothers-in-law don't think their daughter-in-law belongs to their own family, so there is no need to give her cardiopulmonary treatment, right? In fact, they all ignore that being good to their daughter-in-law is good to their son, so that their marriage relationship will be more stable. Some mothers-in-law will be dissatisfied with being rudely treated by their mother-in-law, and feel that they should be such a mother-in-law to be more deterrent to their daughter-in-law. It's a little naive to think about it.

We shouldn't treat our mother-in-law like this because we hate her, instead of becoming the same talent, right? Actually, it has something to do with her mother-in-law's personal character. Traditional women in China have always existed in our lives as housewives. Under the haggle over every ounce of daily necessities, their minds will become narrow. How can they accept their son to love another woman? There is also jealousy in it. The son raised by himself is respectful to other women, and his heart is somewhat unbalanced. Naturally, he will find fault with his wife.

Of course, many mother-in-law are unfriendly because their daughter-in-law is too delicate and pretentious to like it, so everything is relative. We have to understand that it takes two hands to clap, and a woman who is a daughter-in-law should also see this. Be kind to your mother-in-law and take care of each other to get her love.

In fact, a mother-in-law should be aware of the influence of her behavior on her son's marriage and family, and it is best for her children to be tolerant and generous. If you love someone, you should love what he loves, shouldn't you? Presumably this truth, mothers-in-law should learn.