Is it silly to insist on traditional marriage now?

If you feel that marriage is very tiring, you may need to think about what causes this feeling and what specific problems need to be solved. Communicating with your partner is the first step to solve the problem. Try to communicate, let the other person know your feelings, listen to the other person's thoughts and opinions, and try to find a solution to the problem. If your husband does something that makes you speechless, you can try to have a frank conversation with him, let him know how you feel and give him a chance to explain his behavior and thoughts. If your relationship cannot be reconciled, you can also consider seeking the help of a marriage counselor or psychologist, who may be able to provide more professional advice and support.