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How to change the habit of being a submissive in love?

Use the simplest words to give you warmth, accompany you, let you grow and make you strong. Charlotte Brandt said, "Love is real and lasting. It is the sweetest and bitterest thing we know." So how to change the habit of being a submissive in love?

First, it's sweet to really love someone. It's satisfying to be crazy and get a response. Talking to a person will never get attention and will also be painful. My heart is full of love. No matter whether it tastes sweet or bitter, we will stick to it and be together. There will be no second thoughts. I won't look for opportunities.

Secondly, I have seen an interview in which a man cooks for his wife every day. The wife gets off work late, so the men all cook until the wife comes back. This is beyond the imagination of many women. After all, in China's traditional concept, men are the outside masters and women are the inside masters, so husbands are not only the outside, but also the inside. In fact, at first, two people were not like this. The man didn't cook for his wife. But one day, my wife came back late, didn't say anything, went directly to the kitchen to cook, and said a word to the man after eating. Working all day is too hard. If I can see hot food when I come back, I will be the best in the world. Because of this sentence, men let their wives feel tolerance, respect and demands, not accusations, resentment and demands. So of course, I will be happy to satisfy each other.

Third, use coquetry instead of complaining. One day, a student complained that her boyfriend was out socializing. After reading the chat records of two people, I found that the problem was not that my boyfriend went out to socialize, but that the students themselves were a little uneasy, but they didn't know what to do, so they turned their feelings into accusations against their boyfriends to complain. When I heard the accusations and complaints from my classmates, my boyfriend's first reaction was that I was trying to earn money to support my family and entertain my family outside, and I didn't want to comfort my classmates when I got home. The contradiction intensified. Later, we told our boyfriend through communication. Actually, I don't blame you for socializing. I'm just a little unhappy. You have to stay at home with me and cry, and then my angry boyfriend will apologize immediately. I was wrong. I was wrong. Said he would never receive it again. The two found the sweetness of the past again. So have you learned Tai Chi in these two emotions? Four or two kilograms, don't play hardball Only with your love will it be more complete and relaxed.