Why do more and more women think that children are born for men?

Most women understand that children are for themselves and their husbands. Before giving birth, they also firmly thought so, but after giving birth, their husband's behavior will make them feel wronged.

First, according to China's traditional concept, children usually take their father's surname, and rarely take their mother's surname. Therefore, in many people's minds, children are considered to be descendants of the husband's family.

Second, there are more and more words about widowhood and parenting. Most children are cared for by their mothers from pregnancy to birth. Mothers have to go through the pain of pregnancy and childbirth in October. After the baby was born, many fathers turned a blind eye and felt that as long as they worked hard. So, it's all made by mom. Mothers will give up their jobs and many things for their children.

Third, most fathers will not take the initiative to help their wives with their children. It is usually the mother who risks becoming a yellow-faced woman because of her out-of-shape figure. After giving birth to the child, she will quit her job, take care of the child and continue to work after the child goes to school. As long as the father of the child continues to work, when he is old, the child will not leave him because his father has not taken care of himself. ?

I believe that if a man can care more about his wife and take care of the baby when she gives birth, not only will the family be much more harmonious, but his wife will also be there, and remember your kindness firmly all his life.