What kind of popsicle to eat? You look like a popsicle to me.

We passed the age of material scarcity and began to pursue poetry and distance. Pursuing spiritual life has become the goal of this family. Although the material is abundant, people still pursue health and eight points of fullness, and they also think that "seven points of hunger and cold are reasonable if children want to be safe". We still have some restrictions in educating our children. Only by reaching a balance can children be physically and mentally healthy.

? As a post-80s generation, when I was a child, I had a desire, such as eating a popsicle. My parents would say, "I think you look like a popsicle." Now I think my parents restrict me from eating for my health. Now I think this sentence is humorous and interesting. I want to laugh, this is a childhood memory. But now I have children under my knees, and I want to meet their needs.

For example, eating popsicles and drinking ice water are not advocated by Chinese medicine, which will greatly stimulate the stomach. Cold water enters the abdomen, and it is definitely not good to rely on the temperature of the internal organs for a long time. For the sake of children's health, children should not drink a lot of ice water and eat popsicles at will. Education, like medical care, should be balanced, moderate and communicative.

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But some people will say that eating junk fast food will be very refreshing and happy, and I can sacrifice a little health for happiness. Birthday cake is also a nutritious dessert, but it makes children very happy. Ice cream is cold, but it tastes sweet and refreshing. Little girls like it. Food also carries spiritual pursuits. People who are stressed or in a bad mood will send affection and food, otherwise how can they "turn grief into food"?

? Understand the characteristics of each food and then supply it to children. Parents should know what is big and what is small. "The weak water is 3,000 yuan, and I only take a ladle to drink." This is a choice. My daughter is a carnivore. If she chews something that doesn't taste good, she will spit it out. She didn't like it, so she threw it on the ground and said, "It's not delicious!" " Asked my neighbor's little brother, I also complained that I wouldn't eat anything but meat.

If you want your child to be healthy, you'd better have a balanced meat and vegetables. Mix the meat and vegetables and feed them to your daughter. She can leave the meat in her mouth and spit it out. This problem of picky eaters is completely related to our usual overeating. Children have no judgment and don't know what is nutritious and what is not. She only knows what tastes good and what doesn't. Human nature pursues advantages and avoids disadvantages, and rich material conditions may not be beneficial sometimes.

I saw a video saying that children playing mobile phones will make the cerebral cortex thinner and affect their intelligence. There are many such reports every day. At the Spring Festival party, my daughter was absorbed in watching TV. Her uncle found that watching TV was not good for children, so he turned off the TV at once. My uncle's little sister never watches TV and mobile phones at home, but only reads books, plays the piano and draws pictures, which is completely cultivated in the direction of a lady.

? But my daughter is immersed in the world of Piggy Peggy and Qiao Hu every day, and immersed in Night Garden. Sometimes I play dad's companion's software. When watching TV and software, we will interact whenever we have the chance. My daughter once cried when a boy was watching TV, and so did she. When she saw a grandfather fall in a picture book, she would say, Grandpa fell. I said, then help him up. The daughter will hold the picture in her hand, which means that she has lifted it.

? My daughter lives in the era of mobile internet, and information comes one after another. How to shield? It is necessary to limit children's time. We can get to my sister's house without looking. We can't do it in our house anyway. We are all internet addicts, because the internet can provide content that books can't. On the internet, we can see the elegance of celebrities and big coffees. Although it is fragmented, it can also be understood that video is more intuitive and effective.

? You can show your children Harvard professors' courses or listen to Ted lectures. When you search online, you will find relevant information and research, at least giving a certain direction. Internet is a big world, and we can know what we want to know. Of course, the Internet has its drawbacks. If we can't find the content, then take the children to bookstores and libraries.

? If you want to buy picture books to read with your children, you can find relevant research from the internet, which can guide your children to learn more deeply. Books make children calm and concentrate more. When reading, we will think about the content and expand our imagination. However, it is still necessary to educate children that "it is better to believe in books than to have no books" and let them read with doubts rather than complete faith. No matter how good the book is, it is just the author's thinking and family opinion. As long as people's thinking is limited, it is more important for children to read the world outside books.

? Reading is just a part of a child's life. What's the use of buying more books for children? If you don't read them, it has nothing to do with your thoughts. Many children who don't read many books can also express their thoughts and feelings through thinking and tempering in life. But for ignorant children, reading is still a good way to open the door to the soul.

No matter how good the book is, no matter how advanced the speech is, there will be places that are not applicable to life. The idea that has nothing to do with children's lives is just a dead principle. Let's just look and feel. It is beneficial to open a book, which is much more meaningful than throwing a mobile phone to a child and making him grin and pat some deformed and runny faces or catch a star and moon. Things that make children addicted are not very good things, because they have lost their minds and are not sober enough.

? My niece recently changed her screen name to "a boy addicted to learning", because the college entrance examination is coming, and all the children's energy is preparing for the exam. What is the state of being addicted to learning? Probably what many people call flow. The college entrance examination is just the ultimate rule of the exam-oriented education game, but it has also been improved. For example, English scores should be the highest in the usual three exams, which means that children should learn English well at ordinary times, but as long as the exams are in place, the rules will not change.

? Yale and Harvard also have exams. If you want to enter a prestigious school, you need better ability, such as English writing ability. Think about it, we are faced with all kinds of "exams" in our work and life every day. When going out, we need to find the position of "exam". At work, the file will not be changed to "Exam". When we cook in the kitchen, we must first study the menu. When we officially do it, it is also an "exam." What we should teach our children is the ability of lifelong learning, and we can make progress by constantly reflecting on our own gains and losses.

? I think people who criticize exams must not realize the truth of life. After all, the college entrance examination gives children a chance to compete fairly. Whoever gets high marks will go to a better university. If we love children, we should let them constantly pursue their own Excellence. Instead of complaining about exams, complaining about society and complaining about teachers.

? And the way we communicate with our children. When my daughter wants to eat popsicles, I really want to say, what popsicles to eat? You look like a popsicle to me. I still held back. I think there is always a better way to solve this problem.