How do young people balance and choose between self-worth year and social traditional concepts?

I've been thinking about similar problems recently, and I'm not familiar with them. The following are:

1. Pursuing the psychological conflict between personality and traditional ideas.

With the advent of the 2 1 century, young people are no longer like those who read four books and five classics in one day, and they absolutely obey the instructions of their elders and superiors. They don't think about themselves and seldom think about what they should do. Nowadays, young people are different, thinking about what I want to do. For example, at school, they take the initiative.

Pursuing individuality. For families, children and their descendants once listened to their parents. It's different now. "We" and "parents" should draw a clear line between the Chu River and the Han River, and each should do his own thing and mind his own business.

Pursuing individuality. Most young men and women associate freely and get rid of the previous arranged marriage.

Pursuing individuality. Fashion follows teenagers and middle-aged people.

2. Thinking about life, that is, values and professional outlook.

Tradition, pay attention to a general framework, such as "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world". Here's a sequence. Most of them are irresistible.

Tradition requires that the skeleton of your outlook on life is what you learned from primary school books, teaching you what to do and what not to do; Teach you how to know the bad guys and who is the right good guy; Teach you to get married and have children as an adult, and honor your parents. You are not allowed to accept the notice without authorization.

Now, the skeleton of our outlook on life is to thoroughly understand what life is and not be fooled by you, because we don't want to think about life when something goes wrong.

Value, based on society, we need to find out what society is and where we are. What I want to talk about here is the relationship between "individual" and "home" and "country" and "world", even the universe. We should know our own abilities, make a good life plan and set a goal.

In short, our life is no longer easy to set. We have autonomy.

Generally speaking, 2 1 century has come for 8 years. What we need to do is to put aside China's traditional teaching and reflect on "outlook on life"/"values" at 1.80 degrees. Compared with the world, our world outlook should be linked to the world; Compared with the situation of great integration of the world, our outlook on life should be inseparable from the trend; Compared with China's exclusion and isolation, our values should be based on the prosperity of local economy and the pattern of world economy.

2 1 century is an era of world integration and blending of Chinese and western philosophy.