In China tradition, when can't you share a room?

In ancient China, people paid attention to health preservation during sexual intercourse, and put forward the viewpoint of "three deficiency and six taboos", that is to say, it is not easy to have sex for three days and six emotions, otherwise it will not only endanger health, but also be harmful to children if they are pregnant. Let's see which traditional days in China we can't share a room.

Don't share the same room on the day of "three virtual"

"Three Deficiencies" can be divided into three types: year deficiency, month deficiency and day deficiency. The essence is that health care throughout the year should follow the changing laws of solar terms and heaven and earth.

Don't have sex when you are young. There are two shortcomings in a year: the first is the winter solstice in the solar terms. In ancient times, there was a saying that "the winter solstice will bring a sun". On the day of winter solstice, the real fire is rising and the real sun is about to rise. This day is also called "the shortage of this year", which means that the winter solstice is the weakest time of the year.

The following year is the summer of solstice. As the saying goes, "the solstice in summer is cloudy." The summer solstice is mostly around June 22 of the Gregorian calendar. On the first day of the summer solstice, the real water is still very weak, which is also the weakest time of the year.

The solstice in winter and the solstice in summer are two days of alternating yin and yang. The movement of qi in heaven and earth is more active, but the human body is in a relatively weak state. Therefore, it is best not to have sex in these two days, as well as in winter solstice and summer solstice. On the one hand, it consumes vitality; on the other hand, the quality of Xue Jing is unbalanced. If pregnant, the child may be surly and eccentric.

The "six taboos" mentioned by the ancients are more complicated, and I roughly classify them as follows:

The core memorial of life is rushing. This involves the life characters in traditional culture. For example, in the zodiac, it is best not to have children who belong to pigs and dogs. Because according to the zodiac, dragons and dogs collide. At home, we emphasize stability and long-term, less conflict and happiness. The problem of horoscope sounds a bit feudal and superstitious. In fact, it is also a part of traditional culture. The zodiac is a mutually developing and contradictory relationship.

Don't have sex after drinking. Wine tends to produce damp heat in the body, especially for men. It is taboo to have damp heat in the body. From the point of fertility, damp heat will lead to insufficient sperm purity and semen stagnation.

Nowadays, many people begin to make preparations a few months before pregnancy, and they don't smoke or drink. This kind of "closing hillsides to facilitate afforestation" is very good, and it is responsible for yourself and future children, which is worth promoting.

Avoid sex in a rage. People should not have sex when they are angry. Anger and anger will make people's qi and blood rush upward, and the essence and blood in the lower coke will be weak, and at this time, the qi of the human body will be suppressed. In this case, if you are pregnant, the child born is prone to sores.

Fear forbids sex. At present, some young people are greatly frightened when they have sex because of limited conditions, or some adults are having extramarital affairs, which will cause great harm to the human body, such as impotence, sweating, palpitations and so on. At this time, if you are pregnant, the child is prone to miscarriage because "fear leads to anger."

Avoid sex when you are sick. Sex itself is the biggest loss of yang, and when people are sick, they need to use yang to defend themselves against the enemy. Having sex at this time is an improper use of yang, which will cause double losses to the body.

Every day is taboo, no room. There is a saying in ancient health preservation that "the sun, the moon and the stars don't have sex", which means don't get pregnant in the wild. This is because substances such as dew in the wild will do harm to the body and affect the quality of pregnancy.

In ancient times, these pregnancies were taboo, which was called daily taboo. These things seem to fear the gods, but in fact they all emphasize that people should have awe. The real purpose is to show that people can only protect themselves with awe, which we should pay attention to in our life.