Brief score of Huiniang family songs

(of a person) return to one's place of origin or unit.

Sun Yi's Poem Donnie Qu

Zhu Mingying sings.

The wind blows the willows.

Brush la la la la.

The river flows well.

Hua la la la la

Whose daughter-in-law

She left in a hurry.

It turned out that she was going back to her parents' house.

Wear a red coat

Wear a flower on your head

Rouge and powder rubbed on her face.

Hold a chicken in your left hand.

Holding a duck in his right hand.

You have a fat doll on your back.

Hello, Yiya Yi Deer.

Dark clouds are coming.

A gust of wind blew.

Seeing the hillside, it's going to rain.

nowhere to hide

There is nowhere to hide.

Raindrops as big as beans hit me.

Hello, Yiya Yi Deer.

Wet the red coat.

Blow off a flower

Rouge and pollen turn into red mud.

Fly that chicken.

Run away from the duck.

Scared the little doll behind him

Hello, Yiya Yi Deer.

Hey, how can I see my mother?

The custom of returning to one's mother's house during the New Year.

On the second day of New Year's Day, the married daughter will take her husband and children back to her family to pay New Year's greetings. On this day, the daughter who goes back to her parents' home must bring some gifts and red envelopes to her children and have lunch at her parents' home.

On this day, there is an important custom in Guangdong, that is, "going back to my parents' home". The traditional Hakka festival custom is that a married woman goes to her sister's house on the second day of the first month, and her new uncle (son-in-law) wants to "come to the door". Women who go back to their parents' homes should bring gifts such as chicken and wine. In Chaoshan area, on the second and third day of the first month, when the daughter returns to her parents' home, she must bring a big bag of biscuits and sweets and distribute them to the neighborhood by her mother. If there are many daughters at home, and these daughters don't come back on the same day, then it is necessary to divide them one at a time. The gift is quite thin, and it also expresses the girl's yearning for the villagers. When the girl goes home, if there is a nephew at home, menstruation has to pay again. Although she gave lucky money on New Year's Day, this time it had a different meaning. This custom is called "eating midnight snack" by Chaoshan people. As the name implies, it's just lunch, and the daughter must get back to her husband's house before dinner.

Can I spend the night when I go back to my mother's house for the New Year?

Customs vary from place to place, and most of them go back to their parents' home on the second day of the second year, but they don't stay overnight.

The taboo of going back to your mother's house

When a daughter who marries in the New Year goes back to her family, she will be poor at home, so she can only go back to her family on the second or third day. However, the implication is that the married daughter is already the daughter-in-law of someone else's family, and many people in her husband's family will come to pay New Year greetings during the New Year. The daughter-in-law must help bring tea and water, so she can't go back to her family on the first day.

What are the taboos for married daughters to return to their parents' homes?

1, don't touch the pot and spoon when you go home.

In the street, we often hear such words as "touching a spoon won't kill my father-in-law, my mother-in-law" and "lifting a pillar of fire won't kill my father-in-law and my son-in-law". Although these words are feudal and superstitious and have no scientific basis, they are easy to form curses because they have been circulated among the people for a long time. Even if you know it is false, hearing it often will have a bad influence on your heart. Therefore, when the bride goes back to her family, she should follow these customs and try not to touch these taboo things.

2. It is not appropriate to go back to your mother's house on the day of sacrifice.

In Henan area, because women don't sacrifice stoves, there is also a custom that they should not go back to their parents' home on the day of sacrifice. Generally speaking, the bride should not stay at her parents' home for too long. First, it is about the mistakes of the husband's family. Second, it is a mistake to her parents' family. The married daughter is a guest, and it is inevitable to take it seriously. Many old customs are gradually forgotten today, so it is enough to know some old customs of going back to your mother's house.

3, avoid the first day of the first month.

The first day of the first month is the first day of the new year, which is the first day of the new year. New Year's Day is a holiday for family reunion. According to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the New Year's Day. Because in the concept of people in these areas, married daughters are like spilled water, and they need to get together with their in-laws during the New Year. If you go back to your parents' home for the New Year, it will lead to the situation that your husband's family can't get together.