How tired is it to take care of the children alone?

For most families, it is the husband who makes money outside and the wife who takes care of the baby at home. Many people think that bringing a baby at home is a holiday at home. Is it really that easy to take care of the baby? Recently, a report interviewed a stay-at-home mother. She said that if she had to choose between taking care of the baby and working, she would rather choose working. She said that taking care of the baby is not only physically tired, but also mentally tired. The point is that others still think you are particularly relaxed. With the society becoming more and more inclusive and open, the old traditional views are gradually ignored by people. However, it is followed by a strong appeal to men to share the responsibility of childcare. So will it be easier for a man to take care of his children alone than for a woman? Let's look at the difficulties women face when raising children alone.

1.？ Because there is only one person in the family, if the baby is young, it is basically impossible to leave the mother's sight for a moment. Even if the mother goes to the toilet, sometimes she has to hold the child. This kind of experience is not common, and mothers generally don't take the initiative to complain.

1.？ The most familiar scene for a mother with children is probably the mess on the ground. My mother will always be a battlefield sweeper, and she has to clean it several times. This is not only a physical activity, but also a test of her endurance.

2.？ For mom, eating is happiness. Many mothers are usually hungry and full. Because being alone with children is the most important thing for children to eat well, and sometimes it doesn't matter what they eat.

3.？ I don't know how long the child will have to wait in line when he is sick. At this time, Ma Bao's heart is the most irritable. While comforting the crying child, there is still a long wait.

In fact, these problems are just the tip of the iceberg among the problems faced by Ma Bao in raising children alone, and the problems encountered by men in raising children alone at home are endless. Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, it is really full of bitterness and grievances to take care of children alone. Children are the crystallization of two people's love. It is improper to let anyone take care of the children alone. Only when men and women share and take care of each other can they understand each other and minimize the bitterness and difficulties of raising children.