What are the misconceptions of the elders' experience in parenting?

I believe that the experience of parenting is with the times, with the development of the times, the concept of parenting should continue to change, some of the experience of the elders have a good point, some are misguided, we should take the essence of the dregs, the traditional Chinese way of parenting is not conducive to the cultivation of the child's concept of independence, this misunderstanding should be corrected in a timely manner.

Wanting to cultivate a good child should adopt the correct way of parenting, in the process of parenting, parenting is with the times, with the development of this era, more and more demand for talent is also more and more high, we should continue to change our way of parenting, as long as the concept into the talent can not be improved, the child can get a better education. Elders are often involved in the younger generation of parents in the process of parenting, but many of the elders of parenting experience there are many misunderstandings, we should not accept wholesale, in order to the harmony of the relationship between each other, we should be communicated through the way to solve the parenting between each other on behalf of the purchase, so that our children grow up healthy.

In fact, the elders are genuinely for the good of the child, only sometimes the way of child-rearing is too backward, not in line with the requirements of this era, we should take the essence of the dregs. Traditional Chinese parenting style is too protective of children, in fact, is a kind of spoiling, what things what difficulties want to bear for their own children, and even the future of the child's road are paved for their own children, so it is easy to create a kind of dependence on the child's psychology, the child will not grow up with the ability to solve problems on their own, and it is not conducive to the child's development of an independent character; a lot of the older generation of people from the rural areas, not very good health care, and the child will not have to worry about the future of the child. The old generation is from the countryside, not very hygienic, such as the use of chopsticks, do not know the adult dishes and chopsticks and children's chopsticks should be used differently, because the adult's mouth has a lot of bacteria, mixing the use of the child will have a negative impact on the child.

These are some of the misconceptions that we should abandon in order to educate our children in a modern and healthy way so that they can grow up healthy.