What is the "bride price" in Putian?

Many people often say that the gift money in Putian is very expensive, at least 500,000 to 600,000. Is it true?/You don't say.

I have synthesized the general situation reflected by netizens as follows:

Netizen @ Hey, Zhu: My house seems to have a different price. Of course, rich people are another matter. Generally, urban areas are more expensive. I have a middle school classmate who got married two years ago. It seems to be from Zhongmen or Licheng. He said it was 800,000, but it is also a good condition for two families.

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Netizen @ Chen Dashan: Mainly depends on the family situation of the other party. There is no standard for engagement fee. If the other party is an ordinary family, you can't ask them to pay as much as the local family standard, can you?

Netizen @ Isnath: To be honest, our cousins got married this year, 888,000 and 988,000.

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Of course, some netizens said that they should start at least 300,000. Compared with tens of thousands and hundreds of thousands of yuan in other places, the bride price here in Putian is indeed as high as everyone knows.

But girls in Putian are also famous. If you want to marry Putian's daughter-in-law, you have to save money. (Strait Net Yellow)

First of all, there are many towns in Putian, which are close to the urban area. The money for hiring people is generally around100000, excluding cars and houses. After all, the concept is relatively mature. Down to Huangshi Town, about 200,000 to 300,000, and Hushi Town. Because it is close to Dongzhuang Town, it is getting higher and higher every year in recent years. According to last year's floating, it is about 500 thousand, and then go down to Dongzhuang Town. The bride price there ranges from 3 million to several million. There is also a town called Zhongmen Town, which was a star town in Putian in the early days. Most of them come from this town. The bride price is generally higher than the sky, and it has always been1800,000. This is still the market for ordinary people. You can imagine how abnormal the local wedding atmosphere is. By the way, there is also a Beigao town, which is the national gold, platinum and diamonds. The average loyalty is not as high as Dongzhuang's, unless a few very rich families like to show leniency, the individual employment fee will be tens of millions. In short, the whole marriage atmosphere in Putian is really bad, and most families have suffered!

How much is the engagement fee in Putian?

Putian City governs counties and districts: Xianyou County, Chengxiang District, Licheng District, Hanjiang District and Xiuyu District, but the bride price varies from district to district. For example, the bride price in Hanjiang District can be around120,000 to 300,000. Of course, this is a single bride price, excluding gold and booze. The bride price in Chengxiang District is similar to that in Hanjiang District, but there is a big difference in Licheng District, which is also in the urban area.

There is also a difference between Huangshi Town and Beigao Town, which is between 353,800 in Huangshi Town and 465,438+450,000 in Beigao Town, but Xiuyu District is the most expensive area. In recent years, I have been fired by Dongzhuang local tyrants to sky-high wages. In Dongzhuang and Zhongmen Town, the daughter-in-law should choose a beautiful school flower. As long as the money is not bad, the woman can agree to marry 700,000 to 800,000. In this way, there are also the following towns whose economic resources generally cannot keep up: dongqiao town, Daitou, Pinghai and Rinan. The employment fee in these towns is about 424,600, excluding the golden banquet. Therefore, there are more men and fewer women, and the labor cost is expensive. One side doesn't want to get married, and the other side doesn't want to get married.

As we all know, the economy can't afford it. Many young men's parents are farmers, and some have odd jobs, small businesses and small skills. They worked hard for a year and saved up to 50,000 to 60,000 yuan. They are reluctant to eat and wear, but the money they earn a year is not enough to raise the price of dowry. Now many boys are still single in their thirties, and some girls are in their twenties and thirties. Because the man can't afford to marry, the woman won't marry because it's cheap, and everyone comes every year.

Xianyou county is also engaged with unequal money. Licheng bride price1.2000 or so, including suburb, Lin 'an, Bangtou, Basha, Dewey, Daji, etc ... 353,800. Such an expensive bride price makes the man's family really unable to collect money, and marrying a wife will be poor before liberation.

Ok, I am a fool, please forgive me for some inaccuracies! You can also go to the comment area to comment and exchange!

Premarital bride price is essential, but the price of bride price is different in different regions. What is the price of Putian bride price?

Some places have also issued an initiative to boycott the sky-high bride price. The proposal said that the maximum bride price should not exceed 6.5438+0.8 million yuan.

Compared with Putian's 300,000 bride price, this wave of government proposals can be said to be a true conscience!

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In recent years, local and township governments are trying their best to resist the high labor costs, and some places even have zero labor costs. Now, the scene of high labor costs in Putian has also changed, and the labor costs in various places have also dropped, and even zero labor costs have appeared in some places.

Putian million bride era is about to withdraw from the historical stage.

At present, the employment fee in many places cannot exceed 6.5438+0.8 million.

What is the employment fee in your hometown?

Is the "bride price" in Putian "sky-high"?

I checked, and this question was raised before February 18, 20 13. In more than two years, we have experienced many changes, and the amount of bride price is not the same. I will answer according to the standards of two years ago:

The average bride price in Putian is around 500,000-600,000. Is it "sky-high"? This mainly depends on which area.

The bride price in Chengxiang District, Hanjiang District, Licheng District and Xianyou District is reasonable and acceptable, but the bride price in some industrial parks is obviously high. Also in Xiuyu District, Dongzhuang, Zhongmen, the north shore of Meizhou Bay and Gaobei, which are close to the coast, are generally on the high side. The folk economy in these places is active, and the wind of comparison prevails. Pinghai, Dongqiao, Daitou, Hushi and Lingchuan are relatively few, and now the proportion of marriageable men and women is seriously out of balance. If boys from economically developed places go to economically underdeveloped places for blind date, they will also negotiate local conditions with the man. There is a saying in the countryside that is straightforward: "Those who have money marry their daughters and those who have no money sell them." To put it bluntly, it is a marriage sale!

There are two kinds of marriage "buying and selling": one is "full marriage" and the other is "real marriage".

"Full marriage" is Putian dialect. As the name implies, the two families talk about the bride price, and what the woman needs to marry the woman, such as home appliances and mahogany furniture. According to local customs, it is an all-round dowry, and this kind of bride price is a little higher, more than one million; However, the dowry left after the dowry is actually similar to the "paid-in", but the face is good; Anyway, the wool is on the sheep!

"Paid-in" means that girls don't get married, or some bedding and some simple daily necessities get married, and the bride price actually received is dominated by the woman's parents. This kind of bride price can be less than the last one. In my area, the gap between these two kinds of bride price is at least100000 yuan. Generally, the man's economic conditions are a little tight, and some people use the house as an excuse to ease the economy in this way.

Whether it is "full marriage" or "paid", the woman's parents will "press the purse" for their daughter. How many "wallets" have you pressed? It depends on the condition of the woman's family. You can do whatever you want. In our local area, generally100000 or more is not capped.

To know whether Putian bride price is sky-high, as a Putian person, let me introduce the marriage customs in Xiuyu District. After you read it carefully, you can judge for yourself whether the bride price here is sky-high or not.

The coordinates are in yuetang town, about five kilometers away from Zhongmen Town, five kilometers away from Hushi Town, eight kilometers away from Dongzhuang, and ten kilometers away from the north shore of Meizhou Bay, Daitou, Gaobei, Dongqiao, Pinghai and Lingchuan. Within ten kilometers of Fiona Fang, Fiona Fang, the bride price varies. There are millions, 50 to millions, less than 50, and the lowest should be around 30. In other parts of Putian, the general market price is between 300,000 and 800,000. Of course, there are tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands and 200 thousand in cities or mountainous areas. The requirements of "Millions of Bridal Gifts" are very high: paying attention to the virgin complex, having no love experience, the age of girls being 18-22 years old, the age of college students being relaxed, and the height being 165MM or so, and getting a high bride price. Generally, it appears in rural areas with relatively rich economic strength, and urban office workers have less bride price, but women will ask for a house, a car and a job.

In recent years, Putian has vigorously advocated "changing customs and customs", put an end to the high-value bride price propaganda, and the bride price has returned to rationality. For people who are superior and transcendent, black-box operation is inevitable and has the taste of black-box operation. The level of bride price is mainly related to people's economic income and the proportion of marriageable men and women; Of course, the engagement fee is also directly proportional to the girl's face value, figure and education.

Behind Putian's high salary, there are reasons that outsiders do not understand. In my hometown, after marriage, women no longer enjoy the right to inherit the family and the obligation to support the elderly. There is an old saying that "a married daughter is a pool of spilled water". Therefore, the high bride price has become the bird's mouth for the daughter to support her parents! This is a problem left over from history. Of course, many reasonable parents have changed this traditional concept and treated men and women equally.

In Putian, the most important thing is to "match the door". In fact, I think the rich and powerful bride price is only for outsiders to see. The bride price is millions, and the dowry is mostly used for villas, famous cars, shares, cash, gold bars and so on. With the shadow of local tyrants in southern Fujian, it is mainly for the sake of face and lining. Of course, there are exceptions: a few years ago, the neighbor married his daughter, and the man was Yan Shidong, and the bride price for her was 588,000. At that time, the price of Yanshi was a "sky-high" bride price. The woman's family married her daughter a Mercedes-Benz, a suite in the city and a cash deposit of 5 million, not to mention other furniture. You say, is it a "high price bride price"? The boy works in the Beijing company of the woman's family, and they are very familiar with each other, not "opposite home".

One more thing, rural people are very realistic! The woman's parents will know the man's social background, as well as the economic and housing conditions of the man's family, and whether the boy has any brothers. Is it the eldest son or the second? Do you have a sister to marry? Is it a big family or a small family? Wait, wait, wait, wait, these are all things to consider when talking about bride price.

In ordinary families, "arranged marriages" still exist for a long time. After the blind date, the woman and the man agreed to be engaged. As long as the man has a house, he will not be asked to buy a house and a car in the town, mainly based on the boy's personality and the boy's work situation. Generally speaking, the bride price depends on the family conditions of both parties, and the matchmaker can match it within an acceptable range.

Most people in Putian like "local cows eat local grass", but in recent years, the divorce rate has been rising, and there have been cases of fraudulent marriage in some places. The "high price bride price" will naturally make people shudder! So today's young people are no longer limited to traditional blind date, but pursue a happy marriage of free love. As for the amount of bride price, it is generally for young people to exchange and discuss themselves, and parents only give reference suggestions. The bride price of long-distance love is generally in accordance with the woman's custom. We girls in Putian look for boys in the northeast, mainly in the northeast. Both parents of long-distance love are more open-minded and will not compare with each other like their hometown.

If men and women really love each other, they should put themselves in each other's shoes, and don't let you miss your marriage because of the "sky-high price" bride price.

Finally, I would like to add one point: this topic about Putian's "sky-high bride price" seems to be only aimed at the high salary of girls; However, for boys, is it also a "high price bride price"? I will answer them one by one here. How can I put it? Most people in Putian prefer boys to girls. If there are no boys, the phenomenon of super-life is inevitable Some people are afraid of being fined for super-life, so they have to consider recruiting "two solicitors" or their son-in-law "two solicitors", that is, both parties have no bride price, and at least two children should be born, one at each end. In order to continue their incense, both men and women can discuss which side to spend. Generally, there are many brothers, and boys who can't afford to marry their daughters-in-law have to come to the door. In Putian's words, it is "being a son to others". Did the man's parents work hard to raise their eldest son and give it to the woman like this? This also involves the "bride price". As for whether it is "sky-high"? Every place is different. According to incomplete disclosure in our jurisdiction, the bride price money given by the woman to the man is about10-300,000, depending on the man's conditions. The annual salary will rise and fall with the changes of the market.

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I wonder how much the Putian bride price is?

Fujian is an economically developed area, especially in coastal areas. Most of them are mainly engaged in business, and there are many rich people. Putian is a famous place in China, but in terms of marriage, it is arranged in the traditional way. When engaged, the man gives the woman gold and silver jewelry, and the minimum bride price is 200,005,000, which varies from person to person.

With the improvement of social living standards, parents are most concerned about their children's marriage. It is very happy to marry a daughter-in-law. Most young people in Putian are in business. Of course, they have less time to fall in love, so it is enough to find the object they like. Hundreds of thousands of bride price is nothing to them.

I think in economically developed areas, the bride price is more expensive, because there are many rich people, and the woman's requirements are of course higher. Who wants to give up their daughter's marriage? Moreover, some places in Putian also pay special attention to etiquette and traditional customs of burning incense and worshipping Buddha. Some people put on a banquet for a few days after they marry a woman, and send a room and a car. Moreover, marrying a daughter-in-law naturally costs a lot of money. In fact, the bride price is also a kind of consumption. According to your own conditions, happiness is the most important thing.

Putian's bride price is the highest in the country, generally more than 300 thousand, some tens of millions, but there are also many dowry.

Many people often say that the gift money in Putian is very expensive, at least five or six hundred thousand. Is it true?/You don't say.

The overall situation reflected by netizens is summarized as follows:

It seems that the price of my house is different. Of course, money is another matter. Generally speaking, urban areas are more expensive. I have a secondary school student who got married two years ago. It seems to be from Zhongmen or Licheng. He said it was 800 thousand dowry. However, both conditions are quite good.

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Netizen @ Chen Dashan: Mainly depends on the family situation of the other party. If the other party is an ordinary family, you can't ask them to pay the same amount of bride price according to the family standards of local tyrants and evil gentry, can you?

Netizen @isnatti: To be honest, our cousin got married this Spring Festival, with a total of 888,000 and 988,000.

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Of course, some netizens said that at least 300,000 people should start. Compared with tens of thousands of yuan and 65,438+10,000 yuan in other places, the wedding reservation in Putian is really familiar.

But Putian girls are also famous. If you want to marry Putian's wife, you have to save money.

How much is Fujian bride price? Because I am from Songxi Village, Zushidian Town, Xupu County, Huaihua City, Hunan Province. A Mu! !