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I think if you think you really like her, you should be willing to pay more for her. As a girl, we all want to have a man who loves and cares for us, who is sincere in his devotion, and who will create romance. If now you know each other, then first understand her, to know what she likes, what she does not like, more and more chat with her, more contact, there is an old saying: day by day, love is born! It makes sense. Then her birthday, give her a gift she has been looking forward to for a long time, gradually let her understand your heart! The most important thing to remember is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life. Show your strengths in front of her, but don't let her realize that you're doing it on purpose. Don't take the initiative to chase her before she pays attention to you, otherwise it won't be easy to get her. If there are a lot of people chasing after her, act like you don't care to compete with them. When she feels that you are not "dangerous", and then lose no time to launch a fierce attack on her, the general situation is: hand to catch! You have to be bold, sincere, and not give up until you get what you want ^OO^ And know your enemy and know yourself, as well as have a good relationship with the people around her. If you like her, go after her, don't back down, don't wait to regret before you are sad. You have to be bold and careful. I wish you success! ~I'm so glad you're here. ~I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that. Teach you to understand girls How to chase girls Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue their favorite boy, except really too like or is the kind of more personalized brave girl. So, if you like a girl, and think she is also a little bit of meaning to you, then take the initiative, do not engage in a tug-of-war with her, their own difficult, maybe you like the person is also painful. Any girl's psyche is complicated when she's being chased. She may be happy, but with a bit of trepidation, she has the ambivalence of wanting to reject and welcome this boy who has intruded into her peaceful life, and she doesn't mean it. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, she's afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her resentment, you do not take the initiative, she also does not take the initiative, but also slowly fade down. If you start the confession was rejected by her, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking in her heart? Maybe you confess twice more, she will be impressed by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move. If you suffer a setback, immediately leave, never answer the girl, protect yourself tightly, licking your wounds in silence, in your pain at the same time, do not know, the girl may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret refused you, and then see your indifferent eyes, she is also very painful, but she will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase her. Your excessive pride may hurt the girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you are not sincere in liking him, or why would you just give up on her? Some people say that it's so hard for guys, it's so hard to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women, from the biological and social point of view, women are always passive. If the other way around, let the men all pulse shyness, women become courageous, the world is a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful, moving ah ~ I always hear is a brave man overcame how many difficulties, and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples of the opposite. Some guys are afraid that people will say they are stalkers and get a bad reputation. However, I think the boys pursue their favorite girls, a little frustrated still continue to the girl good, that people really like, very sincere, if not successful, but also not regret, and nothing ah? Who let people like it? The most hate others to follow blindly involved, but also hate the kind of their own no idea, too concerned about what others think of their own boys, deserved this kind of boys can not find a girlfriend. If you are a man, you should be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you pay hard, and once your heart impressed her, then you will get more and longer double the love. Such examples abound around. Girls are very gentle and sweet to their boyfriends, in exchange for this sweet, the beginning of the hard work is nothing ah? And most of the good girls love quite devoted and dedicated. Therefore, it is recommended that some boys brave a little, to pursue their favorite girls, do not be so afraid to shrink, one is to let people think that you have no manhood, the second is your own strange hard, but the most important thing is still: in the end you can not get anything. Happiness is always earned, don't expect others to give you charity! To add, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your target is your own sincere favorite, girls tend to be passive, passive can only choose to accept and reject, so I'd rather take the initiative, love what I love, no regrets! ----- Life is beautiful, happy in it, to learn to find! First, what kind of first impression should be given to MM (time: just started contact with MM) 1, I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation. The greatest charm of men is successful career, young people do not work long enough to talk about "successful", this time you have to let MM think you are a progressive people. Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are confident about the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream. 2, to appear to have confidence and responsibility Do not act like a child, girls are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with their own confidence and responsibility. There is a wrong choice is better than no choice. Have confidence and do not overdo it, or become narcissistic, girls are most disgusted. 3, do not be too serious, but not too casual The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting. Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull. 4, look mature a little calm, calm and unhurried man on the MM has a fatal attraction. Second, how to start further contact with MM (time: the beginning of the chase stage) 1, this stage is the most critical can not be in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are in pursuit of people. Think about it, the average person will not glance at you, but also will not glance at you hate you, are the children of the people (unless you look like Chow Yun-Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), good sense is needed with the understanding of the increasing realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to develop further. Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you so directly rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact for a while after the discovery does not like you, then it is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition out, basically will be immediately smothered back. 2, to start low profile First of all, the relationship should be positioned as "friends", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become "good friends", taste can also ask each other to become a "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant", "confidant". "confidant" or something, in short, never say "chase you". Think about it, if you don't even mention "chase", then the girl will not have the opportunity to "reject". This can reduce the girl's psychological pressure, so that you can smooth the relationship down. Do not fantasize about recognizing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not generated out of thin air. 3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating to have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will also be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to capture the indulgence" (this is my classmates how many years of crystallization of the heart and soul). You pester people all day long naturally do not think you good, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember you in the benefits. There is not to come up with "not you do not marry" the ambition to, too bad, sometimes you can play some tricks. 4, to create the appropriate opportunity As I said before, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing others", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity. You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait for a rabbit into an encounter; you can also pretend to be careless and find the most sufficient reason to invite the other party to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice. 5, cut taboo cut taboo: randomly send people gifts is not polite Some people chase girls eager, like to often buy things to send people, do not know chase girls most taboo this. As the saying goes, "no merit, no reward", you send people things is to exert pressure, people will feel indebted to you, so you will find a way to return to you, if there is no way to return to you will find a way not to interact with you, so as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show their sincerity, may as well ask girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or find expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately two people spent together rather than into something to take home. Third, "girlfriend" in the end what? 1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise You and the girls began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" into "good friends", then to "very very good, talk about everything friends", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moonlight", you suddenly attacked kissed her. At this point she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she has thought that you are his boyfriend. I know the most brilliant, until the bed have not asked "are you willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "How do you not beg me to do your girlfriend ah!" So, do not be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is the more favorable to you. 2, "confession" is what? As I said earlier, confession is actually a form, the correct order should be: in fact, has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, water to the drain. Many people do not understand this problem, always think that people first agreed to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say that very very "simple", but also very very "stupid. 3. Is there a time when you have no choice but to express your feelings? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or you and the girl relationship is not mature but the two people may be separated for a period of time. This time the confession is immature conditions of the confession, the risk is very great, similar to the game of Go when the situation is critical, the losing party forced to put out "winners and losers", win, lose can only say "bad luck are born". 4, "love" word do not easily export Often see forums appear "bold confession", honestly I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, means the pursuit, also means commitment, and even embodies a responsibility. Casually say "love" man is irresponsible. Fourth, civilized love, can not be forced 1, not every MM can be chased into the hands of a good girl will always have a lot of people to chase, it is impossible to try to everyone's wish, there will always be losers. For example, even if you have studied hard to master the most super chase MM principle, you can't catch up with any of the TWINS. Consider the issue from another perspective, an elementary school did not graduate from the rural area of the small nanny, even if you are no longer good, every month to earn 600 to buy you 700 gifts (overdraft), willing to for you to "work as a horse", you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and wails every day, you must feel annoyed. So love is the need for material basis, at least need to be balanced. 2, chasing MM do is a serious social activity Never get people annoyed, to give yourself a way back. A man can't afford to have a wife. Some MM really snobbery (a few), if not convinced, you can be angry, with the fact that "she was blind", do not mislead yourself.