Why is it said that a strict father produces filial sons and a loving mother has many defeated children? 1, from "Zeng Guang Xian Wen" Excerpt: ...... A strict father produces filial sons, and a lovin

Why is it said that a strict father produces filial sons and a loving mother has many defeated children? 1, from "Zeng Guang Xian Wen" Excerpt: ...... A strict father produces filial sons, and a loving mother many defeated children. Guns beat the heads of birds, knives cut the snakes of the earth. Zengguangxianwen is a bibliography of children's enlightenment in ancient China. It is also known as "the past and the present" and "the ancient and the modern". The name of the book was first seen in the Ming Dynasty during the Wanli period of the opera "Peony Pavilion", according to which it can be inferred that the book was written in the Wanli period at the latest.

2. There was once a man who was spoiled by his mother when he was a child. When he fought with others, his mother never criticized him, and when he stole something, his mother did not want him to give it back to others. When he grew up, he became an unscrupulous robber. Finally, he was caught by the government and sentenced to death. Before the execution, he asked to see his mother. After the mother and son met, the mother hugged her son and cried, but he bit her ear off and said, "It's all your fault, you didn't educate me when I was a child when I did so many things wrong, and that's why I ended up in the situation I am in today. Later, there is a "loving mother more defeat children" said.