Should men support their parents-in-law

It depends on what you say when you marry someone and how much it costs to marry someone else's girl. If you don't give the bride price, even if you give it to the girl's parents and return the money to your small family, then you have to support your in-laws at this time.

When many boys marry their daughters-in-law, the woman wants some bride price. She thinks that her parents are selling their daughters. Then she accosted the girls in various ways, saying that she loved them, and everyone gave them to her. How can she ask for money?

Moreover, girls say that their parents have raised themselves for more than 20 years and will leave home soon, so they must honor their parents. After all, she has been a man's home since then.

And boys will say, well, it's not like they won't go home when they get married. After your parents' home, we will not ignore it, we will honor them.

The girl really asked for a little bride price, and then took a little more dowry to marry her. From then on, she took care of his parents in the man's house, gave birth to his children, took care of his family, and made him worry-free at work.

Girls are willing to take care of his family because they want to love him, but one day their parents are sick and need money and care. At this time, boys may say, you can take care of your parents, but you have to take care of your children. Otherwise, who will take care of your children and remember to come back to cook at night, while girls can only take care of their parents with their children. When the parents said that the money was not enough, the girl called the boy and hoped that he could give some money. At this time, boys will say, you are married to my family. Why do you want me to pay for your parents? You robbed me of so much money.

However, when his own parents were ill, he told the girls that if the children don't have to look after them, you should take good care of my parents. At this time, no matter how much it costs, he is ready to pay.

This is a promise a boy made when he married a girl. The girl believed him because she loved him, but he failed her. If you promise to help your daughter-in-law support her parents when you marry her, you should do it. Otherwise, not only will she break her heart, but she may never be sincere to you again.