Traditional wedding taboo: couples can't share the same room when they are at the woman's house.

It is very important to know China's traditional culture, traditional ideas and values. Let's learn about some traditional wedding taboos in Chinese weddings.

Traditional wedding taboo number one: wedding time

Try to avoid these three months when you get married: June, March and July. According to traditional customs, the bride who gets married in June of the lunar calendar is also called? Half-moon wife Because June is half of the whole year, the bride in June is equal to half of the bride, which means that couples are prone to divorce after marriage. If an immediate family member dies suddenly, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event or register for marriage, otherwise? Sick and sick? Criminals In addition, March and July are the days when ghosts appear more and more. For elders, it is not good to get married in these special months, so try to avoid it.

Three days after marriage, the groom accompanied the bride back to her family. Back to the door? On the day you go home, you must get back to your husband's house before sunset. If it is too late, the couple will stay at the woman's house. Remember not to share the same room, and sleep separately, so as not to bring bad luck to your family. In addition, it is best for newcomers not to spend the night outside. It is also forbidden to participate in any wedding, funeral or celebration within four months of marriage.

Traditional wedding taboo 2: wedding ceremony

The groom-to-be had better find an underage boy to sleep in the new bed after the new bed is made, otherwise it will violate the taboo of sleeping in an empty bed. The so-called "sleeping in an empty bed is either death or death?" That's a bad omen. When the groom gets married at the bride's house, the bride will cry with joy when she leaves home, and the sooner she cries, the louder the better. Is this called staying? Water head? A royal family means that the more you cry, the more you cry. If you meet another team on the way to the wedding, what is this situation called? Xi chongxi? , will offset each other's blessings, so we need to set off firecrackers to each other, or exchange flowers prepared by the matchmakers in advance to resolve them. When the bride enters the man's house, aunt Weng, pregnant woman and filial piety should avoid each other to prevent conflicts.

Traditional wedding taboo 3: pay attention to the wedding location.

When loading the bed, put the bed in the right place, not facing the sharp corner of the desk closet or something. The new bed also needs to put some auspicious items on the bed, such as lilies, red dates, lotus seeds, etc., which means a hundred years of harmony and early birth. When the bride enters the man's house, if there is a threshold, she should cross it, and be careful not to step on the groom's shoes. No one is allowed to touch the new bed on the wedding day until going to bed at night. The bride must not touch the bed that day.

Traditional Wedding Taboo 4: Things in Wedding

All dresses, wedding dresses, shoes, etc. The bride should wear a brand-new dress on her wedding day, and the dress should avoid pockets, because many pockets will take away her family's wealth, so it is best to choose one without pockets. Brides holding flowers avoid choosing flowers, which are easy to wither and are taboo in marriage. If you want to choose, you'd better choose lotus flower and pomegranate. Even recruiting flowers means getting married, and pomegranate means having a full house of children and grandchildren. Newly-married couplets should be hung on the eve of marriage at the latest, and taken down one month after marriage, and both men and women should distinguish their own couplets when buying couplets.