A composition about how a father educates his son to obey the rules.

Subject: Teaching children to obey the rules.

Rules and order are the basic principles of social life. Without it, no social activities can be carried out. There are two different forms of rule order. One is that there is no explicit provision, but people's moral experience and behavior habits formed in long-term public life, and some established codes of conduct are recognized and observed by others. For example, you should queue up for shopping by car, don't make noise in cinemas and libraries, don't fold flowers in parks, don't throw dirty things on the water, and even go into battle lightly before entering the venue and cinema screening hall ... Secondly, there are express provisions, which are conventions, rules, regulations and disciplines in public life. Such as traffic rules, instructions for park visitors, store service convention, school student code, examination discipline, etc. , usually mandatory, and some even link up with laws and regulations. ?

Acting according to the rules is the basic principle of civil society on earth. If everyone only proceeds from his own interests, does not abide by the rules of the public and does not consider the wishes of others, the world will never be peaceful and will endanger everyone's interests. For children, it is necessary for children's socialization to form the habit of consciously obeying the rules. ?

There is such a story:?

A well-known entrepreneur from the Mainland went to Hong Kong to do business. He lives on the S-shaped grass not far from the parking lot. One day, because he was late, he walked directly from the grass to the railing and got on the bus. When a young Hong Kong policeman found out, he immediately came over and politely tore him a ticket of HK$ 280. He must "apologize, apologize and explain" to the police and promise that "it won't happen again". Say that finish, I put away my ticket and drove away. Who knows, a week later, I received a subpoena from the court. He had put the matter behind him and thought that the problem had been solved at that time, which puzzled him. Ask a lawyer to know, "according to Hong Kong law, if you don't pay the fine at the designated place within one week, the court will summon you;" If you don't pay attention, you will be arrested. Hearing this, he turned to his lawyer for help. But the lawyer told him, "I won't dredge it." "The best way is to honestly admit your mistakes and accept punishment." There is nothing he can do. On the day of the trial, he smiled and frankly admitted his mistake. Unexpectedly, I was puzzled to see that the tickets were doubled. The judge explained: "I violated the law and admitted it myself, but laughing at the judge is contempt of court, so the punishment is aggravated." After listening, he was speechless and deeply shocked. ?

For this story, some people in the mainland may find it incredible to make a mountain out of a molehill, but in Hong Kong, everyone, from police, lawyers to judges, is loyal to their duties and closely linked to serious law enforcement. Everyone takes practical actions to safeguard the dignity of laws and regulations. ?

So, how does the education for children reflect the awareness of rules? In fact, there are many rules at work in education, and guiding people to act according to the rules is one of the basic tasks of education. For example, in the face of various honors or opportunities, is it fair competition for children? Or do you rely on power to give children a partial eclipse? It is a typical rule problem. ?

It is the wish of all parents in the world to hope that their children will become talents. However, what methods parents take to help their children become talents is quite different. Some parents want to create good learning conditions for their children, some parents want to give their children some opportunities to feel frustrated, some parents try their best to find teachers and schools, and always hope that their children can get extra care through their own strength, so that they can eat "partial eclipse" and get more care from teachers or other aspects. Therefore, in order to please teachers, many parents use their power to give gifts to teachers and even teach their children how to "woo" teachers. ?

In fact, doing so is not good for the healthy growth of children. There is a middle school student whose grades are not the best, but not bad, just a little coquettish. Her mother is a cadre of the Education Bureau, so please ask the teacher to take more care of the children. How dare the teacher not do it when he sees "above" As a result, this girl has been eating "partial eclipse" from primary school to middle school. She is the best student in the school. Even if you need to vote, the teacher will try to get an indicator for her; Every activity at school belongs to her. She took part in the composition contest. Originally, several students in the class had a higher level of composition than her, but the teacher chose her ... As a result, the girl had no prestige in the class, so the students isolated her and made her feel very painful. In addition, living in a caring environment, I gradually developed a character that can't stand setbacks, and I will cry when I encounter a little criticism. ?

It can be seen that not obeying the rules is dangerous for children's growth. In the process of children's growth, children need both freedom and discipline and principles. Discipline is a strict form of love. In my opinion, discipline is one of the most loving and time-tested gifts that fathers give their children. Enforcement of discipline is different from punishment. Punishment is what you do to children, and discipline is what you do to children. Punishment may breed resentment, but enforcing discipline can make children learn lessons, take responsibility for their actions, and cultivate good children who pay attention to morality, maturity and stability. As the saying goes, "Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang". ?

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