What caused you to find out that you don't share the same mindset as your parents in the countryside?

Everyone's mindset is controlled by their personal surroundings. The first time I realized that I didn't have the same mindset as my parents happened in high school, and then it became seriously obvious that there were many areas of disagreement. I'm not saying that the rural mindset is bad, but I think some of it is just too feudal and stuck in its ways, and should have been changed a long time ago.01, their patriarchal mindset is slowly coming out.

Patriarchal thinking is the most serious feudalism in the countryside. Not only in the countryside, but also in the city, there are still a lot of patriarchal phenomena. As a girl, I am more sensitive to this kind of thing. I had thought that the gender equality in my parents' mouth was true, but from their actions towards my brother and me, I could see a big difference. This kind of favoritism seems to be extraordinarily harsh, but every time by virtue of my younger brother's young ghost words to respond to me.

02, all sorts of traditional and feudalistic thoughts manifested from their behavior.

Every time I see the Internet has Huang Lei's daughter DuoDuo hot search, I know, Huang Lei's education again let me envy. It can be accurately said that Huang Lei's way of education is very correct, he is open-minded and never confines his children, but lets them grow up recklessly within a safe range. But the vast majority of parents can't do this, my parents too, know I go to college still can't wear makeup or paint my nails in front of them ...... Sometimes it feels really too unfree.

03, I don't think on the same channel as them at all.

In the process of growing up, with the deepening of our cognitive level, we will increasingly find ourselves and our parents' gap is getting bigger and bigger, and will even move to lose their temper. Because the two sides of the world view and values are different, each other can not see each other's point. A lot of things that I think I can do, they must obstruct me to do, which makes me feel very unhappy and no sense of freedom.

Thoughts and ideas are formed over a long period of time and are difficult to change. Rural thinking isn't completely bad, but I think sometimes it just needs to change.