Interpersonal balance theory

1. No one will give it to you unconditionally except your parents, generally following the principle of balance. In other words, the two sides evaluate in their own minds whether their efforts and the results are balanced. When the evaluation is "equivalent", the exchange between the two sides can be formed.

According to the principle of economics, in the process of interpersonal communication, few people actively want to hurt your behavior. In most cases, the other party ignores you or forgets you, which leads to misunderstanding. You think the other person is against you, which is often the assumption of your own supervisor. It is often the most uneconomical for you to take the initiative to launch "offensive behavior", which will also lead to very bad consequences.

Based on the above, cherish those who love you, those who care about you, and even those who hate you. Because these three kinds of people are extremely rare compared with those who ignore you, they constitute the whole meaning of your life and even your life.