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Allusions about family education methods

Family style allusions of family education are as follows:

First, Zeng Guofan

Zeng Guofan is a controversial figure in China's modern history. No one cares about his evaluation, but his family education has made great achievements. He regards the word "diligence" as the first meaning of life. Exercise yourself, educate your children and develop a hard-working style. It is required that "all men should always sweep the floor at home" and "all women should learn to wash clothes and cook tea and vegetables".

Zeng's daughter also has four "day shifts": "eat" after breakfast every day and cook all kinds of side dishes; "Clothes" has been carved or achieved in the afternoon; "Seiko" means making men's and women's cloth shoes or sewing clothes at night after dinner.

As a person who worships Hou Xiang, Zeng Guofan also regularly checks "day classes" and personally carries them out. As the saying goes, "people are diligent", which shows that the family style of Zeng's "diligence" is really commendable.

Second, Lu Xun.

Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.

In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love."

According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable".

One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun spanked him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."