Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional customs - Our school wants us to memorize Zhu Zi's Family Trainings and then write a 1500-ish piece after reading it. Damn it. So please, give me an afterword. I'm sorry.

Our school wants us to memorize Zhu Zi's Family Trainings and then write a 1500-ish piece after reading it. Damn it. So please, give me an afterword. I'm sorry.

Reading "Zhu Zi family training" feeling

Repeatedly read these words many times, these words meaning profound sentence, really let me benefit a lot, at this moment to understand the "Zhu Zi family training" to talk about hundreds of words can become a Confucian classic, hundreds of years for the world to say heavy reason, but also to understand the school teacher asked us to learn the good intentions.

Not to mention the "Zhu Zi family training" contains rich, deep meaning long, just look at it the whole article to the couplet connected to the beauty of the rhyme, read catchy.

This is a set of people in the world of many aspects of the classic work, the author of the family training in the children to be peaceful, hard work and thrift, harmony and human relationships, and prudent in the end of the pursuit of the distant. He will ancient sage ideals with plain words to the children, which can be seen as Confucianism Qi family thought in a specific family in the concrete practice. In today's view, it is not a bad read for family education, cultivating children's perfect personality and receiving traditional culture.

"Rise at dawn, sweep the court, and keep it neat and tidy inside and out. The door will be closed and locked, and you will be able to check it yourself."

Opening to give people a leisurely mood, many people are longing for a tranquil and self-contained life, in fact, it is very simple, as the author said, get up early every morning, organize themselves, clean to meet the new day, when the last beam of sunlight is collected, they will be with the moon to enter the dreamland, tight door will be annoyed outside the door, precipitate themselves, precipitate distractions... ...Keep a serene mind and take each day seriously!

It teaches us to be diligent and thrifty. "A porridge and a meal, when thinking of the place where it is not easy to come; half silk and half wisp, always remember that things are difficult." This sentence has been widely spread. Thrift and hard work are the traditional virtues of the Chinese people, and nowadays this is a treasure that can not be discarded after the material life has been greatly improved. Any insignificant object is the gift of nature and the crystallization of human labor, have its unique value, can not be wasted; production of labor distinguishes between humans and animals, is a necessity for the survival of mankind. Therefore, thrift and hard work are the most basic human virtues.

It teaches us to think. "It is better to save for a rainy day than to dig a well when one is thirsty." As the saying goes, "Be prepared for danger", there is no smooth sailing in life, and learning to think and have a vision is necessary for success.

It teaches us to be content. "Do not camp in a fancy house, do not seek good land." "Do not covet unexpected wealth, do not drink too much wine." Undeniably, the desire to give us the impetus to move forward, people's desire for endless, like a life in the exuberant grass, as long as there are suitable conditions, will grow at will. The world, complex and complicated, we hurriedly shuttle in the city bustle, in order to run for fame and fortune, physically and mentally exhausted, but do not know to stop, do not know what they are actually in pursuit of, this is what is pathetic, no one will really have all, we should learn to be contented, contentment! In the hustle and bustle to set aside some time, stop and accompany their parents who have worked for half their lives, considerate care of loved ones, greetings to friends ...... happiness is this.

It teaches us to be good. "and shoulder trade, do not take advantage of; see poor relatives and neighbors, must add warmth and compassion" "see the rich and noble and born flattering face, the most shameful; meet the poor and make proud of the people, cheap more than" "give favor without thinking, receive grace not forgetting ". Nowadays, the phenomenon of human indifference, love of the rich and suspicion of the poor, and the phenomenon of giving favors in return are common, and it is precisely this concept that we need to arm our minds. "The only weapon that drives away darkness is light", similarly, the only weapon that removes evil thoughts is kindness. With such a good idea always in mind, greed, selfishness will no longer have a place.

It teaches us to make friends. "Apathetic to the evil young, long will suffer from its tired; Qu Zhi old adult, urgent can rely on each other." With those who are bad for the people of the evil young people to interact, long will be said to be tired, with the old Chen virtuous people to interact, the time of crisis can be relied on, which is what Confucius said the way of making friends. It can be seen that careful friendships, for themselves and others, are very important.

It teaches us to listen. "Listening to the speech, and know that the slanders of non-people, when the patience of three thoughts; because of the dispute, how do I know that I'm not, have to be calm and think" Yes, we have to be good at listening to the leadership in particular, but listening is not the same as gullibility. Words are the most basic and extensive communication media in people's work and social life. So, how do we treat the surging waves of words? Contradictions are everywhere and everywhere, the big right and wrong there, but for ordinary people's lives in the end how much, how to deal with? The answer is already apparent in the Zhu Zi Family Tradition.

It teaches us tolerance. "Everything when leaving room for error, complacency should not go back." Treating people to learn to be tolerant, learn to give others a chance, a tolerant person must be as broad as the sea, such a person is a peaceful person, her heart will always have peace. For people can not be jealous of the heart, can not see than their own good people will always live in the torment of jealousy, which will not only hurt others, but also hurt themselves, so, "people have a celebration, not to be jealous of the heart; people have a disaster, not to be happy heart."

Of course, "Zhu Zi family training" also taught us a lot of many, "good want to see, not really good; evil fear of people know, is the great evil" is the kind of "do not take the good small, do not take the evil small" psychological interpretation. However, one of the most impressive is "reading ambition in the sages, not discipleship; for the official heart of the country, not counting the family" sentence. Throughout history, how many people take reading as a springboard, as a means, as a bargaining chip to get power and money, the motive of reading is "there is a golden house in the book, there is a jade in the book" and so on, like Zhu Bailu will be purely "to learn to use the great help of the people" as the purpose of reading few and far between. The purpose of reading few and far between. And how many people for the official timid, numb mediocrity, tend to inflame the trend, and even deceive the top and bottom, in order to "scrape the people's fat and wealth" as their own responsibility, there are a few people can do "the heart of the king's country, do not care about the body and family"? Or more people also once said such lofty words, but in a few years of the officialdom of the drift between forgetting the youth of the volunteer. To turn this sentence into reality requires a high degree of self-awareness, but also requires a kind of courage.

No matter what job, "reading ambition in the sages, not disciples; for the official heart of the country, not counting the family" this sentence are like morning bells and evening drums, teach people to wake up. Remember this sentence, that is, remember the most original self, that is, remember the blood of youth, that is, remember the way forward. In the labyrinth of society, the temptation of material things often lead people astray, but "reading ambition in the sages, not disciples of science and technology; for the official heart of the king's country, not counting the body and family," this sentence will be like a compass, always pointing in the initial direction, so that our spirit is strong enough to walk steadily in the temptation of the "red dust". "I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.

Of course, times are changing, and although some of the feudal ideas in Zhu Zi's Family Traditions should be discarded, more of them are thought-provoking. Life is a give and take, read the ancient text, we must learn to give and take, this article for living in this material world we have a great significance, it is thousands of years of Chinese civilization precipitation as a lamp, guiding us to walk in the original, the original self. Avoid the clamor of the marketplace, let us read "Zhu Zi family training", to examine the bottom of the soul of that space!