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Why get married?

Why do people choose to get married? Why do people choose to get married? Many people should have thought about this question. Some people figured it out and chose to get married. Some people also figured it out and chose to be single. Some people got married in a daze.

of people are confused and single again.

So why do people get married?

Why do people get married? 1 Why do people get married? What’s the point of getting married? Why do people get married? Many people should have thought about this question. Some people figured it out and chose to get married, and some people also figured it out and chose to be single.

Some people get married without knowing it, and some people become single without knowing it.

Why do people get married? We live to make ourselves happy and make those around us happy.

We get married to make this love complete and full.

It is said that women are the missing ribs of men. From the moment they are born, men and women only have half of their lives. We are always looking for our lovers and our other half.

In the vast sea of ????people, only when we find our significant other can we have a complete life and make our life rich and happy.

So we keep searching, falling in love bravely, making mistakes, getting hurt, hurting, and then despairing and lost, because we have not found the true lover, because true love is hard to find.

A person may meet several lovers in this life, or he may only have one.

You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; or happiness may be just a flash in the pan, happiness or sadness are both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young and ignorant teenagers. Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, sacred and solemn. Some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackles that can tie two people together.

, or some people think that it means having a family. Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning. No matter what, it should happen naturally, regardless of the reason.

Whatever is supposed to happen, just let it happen, go with the flow, no need to force it, no need to be deliberate.

I like this sentence very much: Go ahead and get married. Anyway, idle time is idle. It’s okay to bicker when you’re really bored, so as not to be lonely.

Whether marriage is good or bad should be analyzed from various aspects: 1. Extending life span: men benefit more.

The greatest health benefit of marriage is that it can extend life.

However, men benefit more from it. Michael Murphy, a professor of demography at the London School of Economics, found through a survey that the mortality rate of unmarried middle-aged men is twice as high as that of married middle-aged men, while there is no difference between unmarried women and married women.

So big.

Researchers believe that getting married can help men avoid fatal accidents, violent crimes and avoidable natural disasters.

2. Resist diseases: Men benefit more.

Marriage can greatly reduce the possibility of people suffering from many diseases, including diabetes, heart disease, Alzheimer's disease, lung disease, etc.

Among them, the prevention of male heart disease is the most obvious.

A 2009 study found that unmarried men were three times more likely to die from heart disease than married men.

3. Stay away from depression: women benefit more.

Marital relationships have mental health benefits for both men and women, but women benefit more from them.

Robin Simon, a sociology professor at Wake Forest University in North Carolina, USA, found through research that women are more likely to suffer from depression due to sadness, but married women are significantly less likely to suffer from depression.

4. Overcome bad habits: Men benefit more.

After marriage, men have more room for improvement in correcting bad habits.

A 2006 study tracked and recorded the living habits of thousands of young people before and after marriage in detail. The results found that after marriage, men drink less and smoke less and have a more normal schedule.

Why do people get married? 2 People always think that the final outcome of a relationship is marriage.

However, a few days ago a friend asked his wife: "I don't want to get married, does that count as non-mainstream?" Someone also said to his wife, "I long for marriage."

People nowadays have various different understandings of "marriage". It can be said that one person is like arsenic and the other is like honey.

So, what is the meaning of marriage?

Why do people get married?

Will you be happier if you get married?

In today's article, Madam would like to introduce a paper compiled by Dr. Qian Yue, about the past and future of marriage.

You will find that you do not understand the past of marriage, and the future of marriage may subvert your three views.

In recent decades, marriage patterns in both China and the West have undergone tremendous changes: the age at first marriage has increased, the phenomenon of cohabitation without marriage has become increasingly common, the marriage rate has declined, the divorce rate has increased, and unmarried births have increased... These changes have triggered academic research on "

A lively discussion about the prospects of the social institution "marriage".

As early as 2004, the prestigious American professional journal "Journal of Marriage and Family" published a set of academic articles on "Marriage and its Future."

Among them, the paper "The "Deinstitutionalization" of American Marriage" by Andrew Cherlin, one of the most famous American scholars in the field of family sociology, has been widely cited.

This is an article about the changes in the institution of marriage in the United States: its main point is that the binding force of marriage has gradually become weaker over the past few decades.

Specific manifestations include the increase in cohabitation and the emergence of same-sex marriage.

Why is this so?

Because of social changes, the meaning of marriage has changed.

Before the 1950s, marriage in the United States was mainly institutionalized marriage.

In other words, the family formed through marriage provides a reasonable place for people to have sexual intercourse and reproduce offspring.

In other words, extramarital sex and unmarried childbirth are not recognized by society.