Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional customs - Why are daughters and sons-in-law now taking care of the elderly in rural hospitals, not sons and daughters-in-law?

Why are daughters and sons-in-law now taking care of the elderly in rural hospitals, not sons and daughters-in-law?

Mainly, there is a preference for boys at home. Without the consciousness and consciousness of crows feeding back, the daughter-in-law can't count on it. Why do you think your daughter-in-law will come when your son doesn't come? Daughters have always taken care of their families, and the son-in-law has married the daughter who has been raised by her parents-in-law for more than ten years. It is also appropriate to take care of the elderly.

As we all know, parents' favorite children will basically have various problems when they grow up. Just like a spoil in ancient times, when doting becomes doting, children tend to be arrogant and think that all this is done by their parents and they should enjoy it for granted. Occasionally coming back to buy something is filial piety, which is filial piety. It is basically impossible to expect these pampered and arrogant children to take care of themselves in front of the hospital bed.

In the eyes of more traditional parents, daughters always have to get married, and everything they do is to make a dowry for others, so in some more traditional families, daughters are often ignored by their parents. But it is precisely because of this that daughters are more grateful, more grateful and more attentive to their filial parents.

As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, but this sentence is no longer applicable. More and more boys from traditional families rarely run home after marriage, and are basically immersed in their own small families, ignoring the needs and wishes of their parents. There are more and more examples to verify this statement. Therefore, I still advise you not to prefer boys to girls, and pay attention to listening to your children's thoughts in family life instead of blindly doting on them, which is harmful to your children and ultimately to yourself.