Zhang Changning became a daughter-in-law in Hangzhou. How much do you know about the wedding customs in Hangzhou?

This was very common in ancient times, but now in order to practice this custom, a matchmaker is needed. But unlike before, today's matchmakers basically talk about gifts and the like. Generally, the matchmaker invited is either a respected relative or an authoritative person in the village, and of course, the person who introduced the blind date before is ok.

be engaged

This is basically a pre-wedding ceremony, and important relatives of both parties will be invited to come over for engagement wine. But now most people don't have this process, they just get married.

3. Choose a date and send a dowry.

If you are engaged, find someone to pick an auspicious day. Usually the master will give you a few days to choose. After the time is set, the man will begin to prepare the bride price, which is what we call bride price money and so on. The woman began to prepare dowry, home appliances, furniture, children's barrels and so on.

marry

Wedding is the most lively and formal ceremony. In our family, we go to the woman's house to meet relatives in the morning. Usually, the woman has lunch. After lunch, the bride, father-in-law and brother-in-law will be taken to the man to drink. The man must have a wedding banquet at night.

Return door

In Hangzhou, it is usually the day after the wedding, that is, the man and the woman go back to their father-in-law's house. Of course, there are also some customs that it is good to return to the door within three days.

Nowadays, old Hangzhou people generally don't accept bride price when they marry their daughters to the main city. Their concept is usually: children are married by two families, and the two families discuss the distribution of house and car money. The so-called bride price money may mean that the woman has a house and a car, and the man takes that money.

This situation will only come to an end if both families are reasonable and have the same understanding. If the man's family has the idea of taking advantage, then the marriage will definitely blow up. Even if the girl is pregnant, don't think about threats. You must know that "Hangzhou proprietress" is definitely not called for nothing, and that little care can't escape the eyes of the woman's mother. The woman's father will immediately become a 100% "Hang Tietou" and be indomitable. If the man wants to marry his beloved girl even if he falls out with his family, you can rest assured that Hangzhou's parents are definitely better than their biological parents.