Participate in family education practice activities feelings

The influence of family education on children is influenced by the ear, we should pay attention to family education, and summarize the experience in practice. The following is organized by me for you to participate in the home education practice activities feelings," for reference only, welcome to read.

Parents are the child's first teacher, good family education has a vital significance to the growth of children, the following is a parent of a few points about the experience.

I was initially enlightened by my parents, and now I am educating my own daughter, and my life experience has warned me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines the direction of their development, which affects them for the rest of their lives. Now, I would like to talk about my experience on the issue of family education.

Adulthood is the goal. Learning to be a man is the foundation of the child, the child's lifelong benefit. Educate children to have a healthy mind and sound personality, never let the child become a wealth of knowledge and eccentric character, no feelings for parents, indifferent to others, society. The child must be regarded as an independent person, fully respected and understood, and reasoned with no matter how big a mistake is made. I have always adhered to this principle of education for my children, so that they in the school, society and family education, from childhood in the moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and other aspects of the overall development, at least should become a useful and qualified citizens and adapt to modern society.

Parents are the mirror. "Genius" can not be created, but as long as parents do not lose time to find, cultivate, develop the child's talent in the specialties, with their own hard work to go to their own pursuit of life, the child is likely to be successful. Parents are not only their children's natural teachers and guardians, but also partners, friends and role models. The words and actions of the child reflect the ideology of the parents. "It's not easy to be a parent, and it's even harder to be a good parent." This is true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, try to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, teach by example to care for society, the country, others, friends, colleagues and so on, so that they respect the old and love the young, help each other and humility, tolerance and generosity, treating people and gas. Secondly, to strengthen their own cultivation. Parents should adhere to the moral education, law-abiding, in accordance with the principles and norms of socialist morality, and consciously improve their own moral character of the practical activities modeled on the child. Once again, to create a harmonious environment. The advantages and disadvantages of the educational environment is the growth of the child's summer and winter table, to establish a harmonious family and society, then the atmosphere of family life can not be ignored, the potential of the family elders of character and morality of the heart can not be underestimated, the child in the appropriate praise and encouragement to live, he will learn to self-esteem and self-confidence; in the humiliating life, he will learn to inferiority complex; in the equality of life, he will learn to justice; in the quarrels, grumbles, favoritism and lack of warmth in the life, he will learn to trick. In the midst of quarrels, complaints, favoritism, and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, envy, and indifference. ...... This reality is a "teaching without words". It is not an alarmist statement.

Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning from the children's strengths and advantages. Children have a lot of "lovely shortcomings" worthy of adults to learn. Such as the vigor of the upward trend, good to learn the learning attitude; not conservative, good at accepting the characteristics of new things; less worldly, sincere and straightforward to people and things; on the new technology and new toys and other unknown knowledge of a learning, a play on the skills, etc., they are in these areas of the advantages of the parents are worth learning. Children of this advantage, as parents should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised, not to be ignored, blamed, inhibited, to the point of stifling.

Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the school, society, family trinity system of education, is the engineer of the soul of mankind, but also the creator of children's happiness, the heart of the soothers and healers. For me to experience very y, my child is in a single-parent family, respect for teachers and relatives of the feelings of weakness, the academic foundation is not stable enough, but his teacher injected a lot of sincere love, a strong sense of responsibility and dedication to strengthen the school education by all means, and painstakingly, so that my child in the moral character, intelligence, physical development of a more comprehensive, to make up for the shortcomings of our home schooling, so that the teacher! I am respected by me, my children and the community, so such a "gardener" cultivated flowers will undoubtedly be more colorful.

In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children, so that they can adapt to the modern society of useful talents, the above experience, just my opinion.

Participate in the family education practice activities perception two

All things moral first, the education itself is a kind of moral behavior norms. The education of students is not only the school, at the same time it is the family. The family is the child's first teacher, is the family education to teach, it is through family education, parents will be good moral character, rich knowledge and experience to children. For the child's future. Lay a good foundation for the road of life. In my opinion, the key to good family education should be based on the child's characteristics, "the right medicine".

Children like spring flowers, naive, lively and lovely, innocent and flawless, the ability to distinguish right from wrong is poor, while there is a strong sense of curiosity, strong acceptance and the ability to imitate. So the child teaching, as parents must not use simple, rough methods, should be good at guidance, find ways to stimulate the child's interest, passive learning into active learning, the main should be done in the following areas of work:

First, cultivate the child's good learning habits

Ye Shengtao said: "Education is the formation of habits." "All good attitudes and good methods, we must make him into a habit, only skilled into a habit, good attitudes can be readily expressed, good methods can be readily applied, as if out of instinct, a lifetime can not be used up." The child's attention span is short, and the child's learning efficiency must be improved in normal times. For example, when writing homework, you must complete the homework assigned by the teacher within the specified time, you can not play while doing; their own homework to check their own, they are responsible for themselves, parents shall not be teachers; parents must focus on the reasons for the analysis of the wrong questions, must not just focus on the score. In this way, so that children feel that learning is their own thing, good study habits, can be twice as effective.

Second, pay attention to the ways and means of communication with children

As parents should put down the shelf, and children make friends, the child as an independent subject, and the child to communicate with the child as much as possible to lower the body, less use of the tone of the command, and more use of the language of discussion. More "we", less "you should" and so on, even if it is criticized, to let the child can feel your love for him. Because the child's mind is very fragile, if parents often teach children, is bound to make the child produce a sense of fear and aversion, do not dare to get close to you, but also tends to produce a reverse psychology, not only do not love to listen to you, even the school is also afraid to go.

Three, parents should focus on teaching by example

As parents should pay special attention to their own image, in front of the children, parents should be civilized speech to behave decently. Because the parents are the children's role model, the parents of the words and deeds of the subtle influence on the children, the children's growth far-reaching influence. Of course, for children we have to have great endurance and enough patience to treat children. Do not encounter in the work of the trouble, the child as a venting bucket, as a parent can not lose their temper, can only be relentless persuasion and education, at most, can only gently say a "you do this again, I'm really angry", and then still patiently guide, persuade.

Four, stimulate the child's interest in learning

As a parent, we must find ways to guide, stimulate the child's interest in learning. We all know that children are active and playful by nature, but as long as they are interested in things, he will be really serious to learn, seriously to do, consciously to do. For things that do not interest them, they are not willing to do, to catch the duck on the shelf in the children will not work. Only good at guiding children, stimulate the children's interest in learning, in order to let the children happily and actively involved in learning. Usually we can use their own knowledge, play their own imagination, make up some interesting stories, or interesting games, let the children in the play in the study, in the study of the game, really do "happy to learn".

In short, the children's home education, we must learn to communicate with the children, to help children develop good learning habits, stimulate their interest in learning, so that the children happy learning and healthy growth.

To participate in the family education practice activities of the third

son read the third grade, read more and more books, but also found some problems: reading books a bit of a gulp, only for the quantity, not the quality; on the words conveyed by the emotion, mood understanding is relatively shallow, of course, may be because of the work itself expresses the content of the deeper, the age of the young, he really can not understand.

From the son, from their own point of view, half a month ago, joined the son's reading ranks. We will each choose a book, pick a time period, sit together quietly read, see the interesting place, can also stop to discuss first. When each of us is done reading, we swap. When both books are finished, we will use the bike ride to and from school or our free time to talk about the stories and characters in the books, as well as our own experiences and gains. The child's understanding may be a bit superficial, and his language may be a bit tender, but in the process of exchange, I will use my own relatively rich experiences and feelings to help him understand and enrich his language. At the same time, this is also a good process of checking and feedback, so that I can clearly understand whether my child is engaged in reading. More importantly, at night, under the cozy light, mother and son head together, each looking at a good book, each other's emotions closer, heart closer.

I hope that every day I can make a little time to read with my children.

First of all, I'd like to thank the school for recommending a thought-provoking and good reading book to parents - Don't Lose on Home Education.

I'm ashamed to say that I never seemed to have systematically read a more authoritative, more amateurish book on homeschooling before, so when I got the book, I couldn't wait to browse through the table of contents, and found that it was an excellent book combining the theory of homeschooling with its practice, and that the table of contents alone was enough to blow me away!

The book includes analysis and guidance from education experts, as well as real cases and many successful homeschooling experiences, so that in the process of learning, I saw a lot of misunderstandings in the usual education of children, and I was y touched by the preface of the book, which says: "Children are calling for us to change."

First of all, after reading this book I realized: mothers see their children's shortcomings, can not move to emphasize and speak with emotion, because too much emphasis, will weaken the child's confidence. We do parents in communication with children are guilty of a common problem, is not to speak of the way, occasion to criticize the child, parents should be gentle attitude, calm tone of voice to ask the child, to understand the reasons, do not criticize, preferably one-on-one, which is often more acceptable to the child, so as not to hurt the child's self-esteem. Any mother who yells and screams at her child all day long at the top of her voice will slowly lose her prestige in front of her child. We should change our short temper and impatient character.

Secondly, I learned to let go, since the child stepped into the school door, I will be like all the parents, every day will ask the child's learning situation, to understand the child's learning progress, accompanied by the child to write homework, and found that the error to teach her to correct. Over time, the child to do homework to cope with the matter, after writing in a haphazard manner directly thrown to me to check, the results of the examination often appear to review the problem is not serious, lost the imagination of the problem. Although the child is inevitable, but also the result of my replacement, I decided to properly let go in the future, write homework is no longer staring at her also do not check, on the improvement of self-care ability, cultivate a sense of independence will help.

Again, I think it is very important to give children a happy environment to grow up in. The relationship between parents and children should be friends and playmates, so that children can experience the exchange of feelings, the joy of living, and the reason for being in the playground.

Finally, I think that the treatment of children's education, should be based on the child's interest and let her go to study, the motivation to learn is interest, as long as there is interest in the child to have a long-term learning motivation. Of course, not all of the child's interests we meet, in our financial ability to allow the case, selective fulfillment of the child's interest in learning, this is what we should do as parents.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and their influence on their children is immeasurable. How to educate children in a scientific way? As a parent, we have been looking for, after reading this book, let me find a good way to solve the problem.

Thanks again for the help and inspiration provided by Not Losing at Home Education.