What details should parents pay attention to when getting along with their son-in-law?

In the traditional concept, the first thing people think of is that this man has no status and dignity at home, and he is shorter than others, always to make up for others' contempt. In a family, the door-to-door son-in-law has no right to speak, only the duty of working, and has no status as a man. But this is just a long-standing traditional concept in China. With the development of modern society, people, couples and family members are equal. As long as you can respect the elderly, husband and wife respect each other, love each other and be responsible for the family, both husband's family and parents will respect you.

First of all, everyone in the family should change their ideas. Actually, the door-to-door son-in-law is just a title. Most of the young people nowadays are only children. In order to take care of the elderly and facilitate their lives or need the elderly to take care of their children, they will live in their parents' homes. After living in my parents' house, as a man, I should first change my mind and not have some psychological pressure to live in my parents' house or in-laws' house. Just keep your mind straight. You are the pillar of a family now. You should take good care of this family. You are the support of this family, not the attachment. Men have their own careers and can support a family. No matter where you live, you are an important member of this family.

Furthermore, parents-in-law should treat their son-in-law as their own children. As the family members of the so-called door-to-door son-in-law, especially the parents-in-law, the son-in-law married his daughter and lived at home. At this time, parents-in-law should love their son-in-law as much as their daughters. Don't interfere too much in the affairs between young couples, let them handle their own affairs, and try their best to help their daughter and son-in-law if necessary. As parents, live with children, don't be paternalistic, and don't ask your daughter and son-in-law to live according to their own ideas. The so-called respect for the elderly and love for the young, wise parents only care for their children, and children will respect their parents more.

The most important thing is the relationship between husband and wife As a suitable son-in-law, husband and wife should know how to get along. In the family, the wife loves and respects her husband, and the most important thing is to coordinate the relationship between son-in-law and parents. Because no matter the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the contradiction between son-in-law and parents-in-law, I think the hostess of this family should know how to adjust the relationship between husband and wife and parents. Communicate with parents in time if you have any questions, and try not to create a gap between husband and parents.

In short, I think whether a family is a son-in-law or not, the most basic way to get along with each other is to respect each other, and the core is to pay for this family. Only in this way can a family become more and more harmonious and happier.