What details make you think this person is blessed?

Generally speaking, those who get along well in society are often eloquent, well versed in the wisdom of dealing with others, and know how to grasp people's psychology, so that everyone is happy, so life is getting better and better, and the blessings are repeated.

Everyone wants to live a rich life, so it is necessary to learn the wisdom of life from successful people. If you can find these two methods, you will be all right, because there are many people who are willing to help themselves. Today, I will share this related topic with you-people who really have more blessings generally have these three characteristics. They are often smooth sailing and have more and more good luck.

1, hide your edge. Put away your arrogance, be a low-key person, and don't show it easily if you have the ability. Leave the limelight to others.

Low-key is to strive for more living space for yourself, not to live for yourself. High-profile just lives in the eyes of others and is likely to become a thorn in others' side.

The more low-key people are, the more they can achieve great things; The more people who make contributions, the more they often know how to be a low-key person.

There is a rebellion called Meng Zhizhi. Once, the army was defeated and everyone fled everywhere. Only Meng Ke's rebellion kept up with the crisis. He wiped out the stragglers, made the retreat orderly, stayed in the rear regardless of the danger, and minimized the loss of defeat.

After the army returned to the city, everyone praised Meng Zhi for resisting Japan and handling it well. Meng Zhi Zhi patted the horse and said modestly, "It's not that I'm brave, it's that this old horse can't run fast."

Meng's heroic soldiers are well known, but he is not proud of himself, but cleverly chooses to keep a low profile. This kind of initiative to push for credit is the wisdom of keeping a low profile and avoiding becoming the target of public criticism.

Therefore, Mencius' rebellion can be smooth and profitable, and it is getting better and better. Even Confucius appreciated his wisdom in dealing with people and kept a low profile, so that he would get more and more rewards.

2, do things know how to advance and retreat. Do what you can, advance and retreat calmly, and fear others, so as not to be arrogant; Be alert to your fears, so that you won't make a move.

Everyone is not a generalist. If you have your own advantages, you have your own disadvantages. Only when you know the limits of your ability will you not do wishful thinking.

Those lucky people are pragmatic people. Only by doing what you can, can you get more opportunities and blessings.

Battle of Red Cliffs was a classic battle during the Three Kingdoms period. At that time, Cao Cao was like a cloud, the soldiers were stronger than Ma Zhuang, and even won the battle. Cao Cao went south and hit Chibi in one fell swoop, facing Wu Dong across the river.

Cao Cao claims to have an army of 800,000, but the soldiers are all northerners, and the army lacks an experienced water army. Wu Dong occupied Jiangzuo from generation to generation, which not only had a strong navy, but also had geographical advantages. Many advisers suggested that Cao Cao retreat, and storming Wu Dong was not worth the loss. It is best to consolidate the achievements and slowly draw a map of Wu Dong.

Cao Cao thought that the army was magnificent. As long as the warships were connected with iron ropes, the army was on the ground and Soochow was at your fingertips. Later, as we all know, Wu and Shu joined forces, and Zhuge Liang skillfully borrowed the east wind to burn Chibi and was defeated.

Cao Cao went his own way regardless of the objective situation of weather, geographical location and human harmony, resulting in few 800 thousand troops left. This is a typical arrogance and overreaching. This allusion profoundly shows that victory often belongs to those who know how to advance and retreat and can rationally analyze the pros and cons, so as to get good news smoothly, which is also the reason why Zhuge Liang won.

Although the skills of being a man and doing things are simple, the wisdom is profound. Being able to grasp the wisdom of dealing with people makes things easier to succeed, often smooth sailing and more and more good luck!