African mysterious tribe, the bride on the wedding day, why are you crying sadly?

The reason is very simple, that is, girls are not satisfied with this marriage. It's not so much a marriage as a man and a woman's parents taking her away without her consent. Generally speaking, this custom belongs to Bogota tribe among African tribes. Although there are various cultural differences in different places, it is obvious that backward places are often accompanied by the phenomenon of women's low status.

This is particularly evident in Bogota. For Bogota people, in their customs, not only polygamy is allowed, but obviously, men have absolute initiative in marriage choice. If a man wants to marry a woman, he only needs to negotiate with the woman's parents, and then he can come directly and take the person away, whether the married woman likes it or not.

This is a very novel thing for foreign tourists. If we don't know the reason, the scene of robbing relatives is a very chaotic social chaos. For girls, in the face of such a thing, they can only bear it silently, and no one can help if they want to resist. Therefore, for women in many incidents, they can only cry.

To outsiders, it seems to be married, but for married women, this kind of behavior is undoubtedly a sudden fall into the abyss. This cycle is repeated from generation to generation, forming that women in this tribe often cry on their wedding night. Of course, this is also related to the fact that women will be locked in darkrooms after being robbed. All in all, this is indeed a sympathetic thing.