What are the family styles?

Family style usually refers to the traditional fashion or style of a family or family.

Family is the center of all activities-society is made up of families, and the social situation is caused by the parents of each family. The core of society and country is family. Social peace and national prosperity depend on the influence of family.

Good family style is very important.

A talented family must have a good family style. In order to keep the family clean, Meng Mu chose his neighbor and broke the loom, which made Mencius, a lazy and enterprising man, study hard and become a famous thinker in Chinese history. Zeng Guofan, ranked third, is strict with his children, does not allow him to be superior to others, advocates frugality and housekeeping, and makes all his children useful talents for the country.

A good family style is as indispensable to family members as soil, sunshine and rain. What is a good family style? This is a topic that different people have different opinions:

First, seek truth. Is seeking truth from facts, facing the family and society, we should have a pragmatic attitude, we should not look at the flowers in the fog, let alone take it for granted, and we should adhere to dialectical materialism.

Second, Lide. It is to advocate fatherly love and filial piety in the family, respect brothers and younger brothers, and create a harmonious family atmosphere; Advocate equal treatment, honesty and mutual assistance, and create a warm personal relationship between relatives and friends. There is another more important aspect of Lide, that is patriotism. There is an old saying in our country that "every man has a responsibility, and the country will dominate", and patriotism can be called great love. Kong Old Master Q has a very concise famous saying: Benevolence loves others, which is a perfect interpretation of "benevolence", and benevolence is the core content of our traditional virtue. In fact, how virtue shows the gold content of a person and a family is the essential determinant of a good person and a good family.

Third, honesty. That is, honesty and trustworthiness, done, people respect it; If you can't do it, people will despise it. Pay attention to "what is said must be true, and what is done must be fruitful", and pay attention to "what is said is a promise, which is hard to chase." Never: forget the righteousness and lose your personality; Blinded by interests, bad reputation. We must remember a truth, people are untenable without faith.

Fourth, be diligent and thrifty. That is frugality and simplicity. No matter at home, studying or doing business, diligence should be the first, because diligence can make up for deficiencies and achieve great things. On the other hand, a good family can't afford luxury, which keeps family members away from bad habits. On the surface, the word "frugality" seems to be only related to the economy, but in fact it implies a big article about style and life pursuit. Therefore, the ancients once pointed out that success is due to diligence and luxury.

Fifth, indulge in reading. Reading is an important way for people to acquire knowledge and improve the quality of civilization. Therefore, a good family must be closely linked with books, which is the so-called "scholarly family". Especially today, there are more and more ways to acquire knowledge, and the speed of updating knowledge is getting faster and faster, which requires people to constantly strengthen their study in order to keep up with the times. Indulge in reading, not reading in the general sense, is to keep learning, lifelong learning, and turn learning into a beneficial hobby.

A good family style is important not only to the family, but also to the country. Excellent family style and national style constitute a strong national soft power. This is the key to the fate of the country.

Young people should feel a good family style from an early age so as not to be influenced by secular corruption.