This paper discusses how to build family style with reference to the level of organizational culture.

1, inherited from the eyes and ears. The Chinese nation has always attached importance to the feelings of home and country. The inheritance of family style depends more on listening and listening. Parents influence their families by words and deeds, and teach their children to be hardworking and considerate. Invisible family style will become an arm to improve one's self-cultivation. Family style is a kind of family culture, which can affect one person from childhood and several generations.

Parents play a very important role in the construction of family style. Parents should really realize that they are their children's first teacher and the first key person who affects their children's growth, and do more positive things. In real life, some people are selfish, disobedient and even abuse domestic violence, and their quality needs to be improved urgently. The inheritance of family education is very detailed and concrete. Children's education, like sculpture, needs constant scrutiny to create good works.

2. Feeling in reading the Bible. Family is the cell of society, and family style has an important influence on children. The problems of different family education reflected by children now make people think. A primary school teacher made a small survey about family style in her class. Results 70% of the children answered that they had family style, and 30% said they didn't or didn't know what family style was.

The teacher found that children who didn't answer or didn't understand the family style had more or less problems in behavior habits and communication with people. If you don't learn poetry, there is nothing to say; If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it In the whole society, families and children are actively encouraged to read Chinese excellent traditional cultural classics and tell children what is really beautiful. Promoting the construction of family style by reading classics is more subtle than simply preaching.

3. Deepen in parents' consciousness. In the construction of family style, parents' ideas are more important than knowledge, innovation is more important than methods, and example is more important than preaching. Roman? Roland once said, "Life is not an individual who can grow up in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is like a sensitive camera, taking pictures of what you heard and saw along the way. "

3. Build in the tension between tradition and modernity. The roots of traditional culture are still in people's hearts. The key is how to bring the accumulated positive energy into play, from family to society and from society to family. In the traditional family education in China, the connotation of "poetic ceremony" will change with the times, but the core values will not change.

Carrying forward excellent traditional family education and absorbing useful elements from ancient books such as Yan Family Instructions and Zeng Guofan's Letters will help to improve social atmosphere. Family style should be a familiar simple question, but many people find it difficult to answer, which reflects the shortcomings that tradition and modernity cannot be effectively docked. Culture is a river. We swim from the past to the future, and we cannot separate the relationship between upstream and downstream.

4. Carry forward in the search for the most beautiful family. The All-China Women's Federation launched a nationwide campaign to find the "most beautiful family". By telling the story of the most beautiful family, it shows the unique role of women in China in social life and family life, and shows the new look of family style in our times. This has become an important way to guide women and families to actively cultivate and practice socialist core values and promote the construction of family moral civilization.

Finding a "beautiful family" is naturally important, but what is more important is the process of finding it. The selection of "the most beautiful family" has been positively responded and actively participated by the majority of women. It has become a beautiful landscape to explore the civilized family style and rules, tell the story of family harmony, show the happy family life and build a happy family.

5. Effective in innovative publicity methods. Family style propaganda cannot be turned into cold preaching. Only by being close to the people, having temperature and warmth, choosing a good topic and being lively can we be truly grounded, see the effect and be reasonable. "Family style" is not only a matter of value and ethics, but also closely related to everyone's daily life and behavior.

Every family has its own rules, traditions and family style, but they can form an intersection with each other. This intersection is China's excellent moral concept, the greatest knowledge and demand of society, and the concrete embodiment of core values. For many years, we have been accustomed to top-down moral education and to spreading the truth to the people.

6. Show strength by highlighting vividness. To sum up family style and family education is to sum up the spiritual ability and strength of the Chinese nation. Dig deep into the vividness of traditional culture. Instead of showing the general tradition and family style, it is better to explore its vividness, because each family style tutor has its own vivid content and process.

Family plays an important role in China society, and undertakes the heavy responsibility of cultural inheritance, moral education and personality cultivation. China has attached great importance to the important role of family education in cultivating people's outlook on life, morality and personality since ancient times. The direct function of family style tutoring is mainly reflected in the cultivation of civic virtue. Patriotism is actually loyalty in our ancient ethics.

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Formation process

Family style, just like a person has temperament and a country has personality, a family will form its own unique style and style in the long-term continuation process. Such an invisible mental outlook and intangible fashion habit exists in the daily life of a specific family in a hidden form, and every movement and gesture of family members embodies such a habit, which is family style. Family style can be understood as family atmosphere, a family tradition and a family culture.

Tradition, as a way of doing things handed down from generation to generation, is something passed down from the past to the present. Tradition cannot be formed without long-term filtration and precipitation. As the tradition of a particular family, family style is also the result of the long-term historical choice and tradition precipitation of this family, and it is the crystallization of the life of several generations of ancestors.

To the extreme, there is no family style, but it is also a family style in essence.

Family style is different from the moral standards and lifestyle passed down from generation to generation, and it is a family character. Although once formed, it will become an educational resource and have an edifying influence on family children, family style is a spiritual temperament that can only be obtained by hearing and seeing, and it has the meaning of "moistening things quietly".

Shu Wei's "Gradually Dyeing Family Style" in Volume 9 1 vividly explains this process. Generally speaking, family rules can be regarded as textbooks for educating family members, while family style is the result of long-term education.