A college in Jiangxi Province invited students' mothers to make dinner on campus, why dads are always absent from various school activities?

While both parents are indispensable members of the family, in many families in our country, the default is that things big and small at home should be done by the mother, and fathers are often absent from various activities for their children. A college in Jiangxi province invited several parents of students to make dinner at the school and opened a window of mom's flavor to let students taste the taste of their hometown. Among the hot comments from netizens, some also said they wanted dad's flavor. Dads seldom participate in their children's school activities, mainly due to the influence of traditional concepts, but also some dads do not have the ability to take care of themselves and need to be taken care of by others. In fact, as long as mom will be lazy, dad can help out.

I. Influenced by traditional ideas.

Looking around, from kindergarten to the child's middle school, every activity carried out by the child's school, the majority of those who arrive at the school are the child's mother. In our traditional concept, the father should be outside to earn money, and home things should be taken care of by the mother. This has led to the result that dads don't care about anything at home, and all the work is done by moms.

Two, some dads are huge babies themselves.

There are also dads who have been spoiled since childhood and have not developed the ability to live independently. Before they married their wives, they were taken care of by their parents, and after they married their wives, they were taken care of by their own wives. Such dads are not few, they can not even take care of themselves, can be said to be unable to take care of their own lives, is a giant baby of the family, not to mention the education of children, or to attend the children's educational activities.

Third, mom learns to take a back seat.

Sometimes moms are too strong, and dads can't get involved even if they want to. As a mom, you need to learn to be lazy and take a back seat. Things will always be done, children's school activities will be attended, mom does not participate, dad will have to participate. So a slightly lazier mom may raise a harder working dad. It also has to replace the traditional idea that a family is everyone's family and everyone has to work for the family, not just one person's business.