Three books you must read to learn to speak.

The three books you must read to learn to speak are: three stresses on eloquence, three noes on intention and three skills on being a man.

1, "Three Speaks of Eloquence" is about speaking skills.

"Three Exquisites of Eloquence" takes simple and easy-to-understand words and short stories close to life as examples, from which we can learn the superb wisdom of language and improve our communicative ability and speaking level.

2. "Three without cultivation" is about the wisdom of life.

"Three Don't Cultivate Heart" mainly teaches people how to adjust themselves and cultivate their own mentality. If the heart changes its attitude, it will change with it. If the attitude changes, so will life. Only by learning to control anger, tolerate and eliminate resentment can we enjoy its happiness in prosperity and its central joy in adversity.

3. "Being a man for three times" is about the skills of being a man.

"Being a Man for Three Sessions" mainly expounds the skills and strategies that modern people should master when they communicate with people based on society.

Learn the skills of speaking:

1, choose the topic of the speech to avoid being speechless.

When people communicate with each other, they can talk about their parents, work, short stories in world events, and also tell fairy tales. But not all topics will make people happy and stimulate others' interest in chatting. Different topics will bring different emotions.

2. Pay attention to the flexibility of speaking and leave room for manoeuvre.

Some people compare speech to a "mat". No matter what you say, you must make a "soft landing" without embarrassment and room for manoeuvre.

3. Be good at using "details" to increase the picture sense of chat.

The sense of picture is very important. As soon as you speak, you can remind others of some beautiful pictures, which shows that your language is successful. There is no need to "call a spade a spade" unless the superior arranges the work of his subordinates, otherwise he will say absolutely.