What is the speech for the 8 Mindsets?

The mindset that takes us from the lowest to the top!!!!

A positive mindset is a golden key that opens the door to success, a negative mindset is a door open to failure!

Mindset determines destiny can be spread: be careful with your mind, it will become your thoughts; be careful with your thoughts, it will become your language; be careful with your language, it will become your behavior; be careful with your behavior, it will become your habits; be careful with your habits, it will become your character; be careful with your character, it will become your destiny!

The eight mindsets are: achievement mindset, learning mindset, pay mindset, tolerance mindset, normal mindset, optimistic mindset, self-discipline mindset, gratitude mindset.

In fact, the eight mindsets complement each other and are essential for success!

We first talk about the achievement mentality.

---- achievement mindset, a boss's mindset. That is, think of yourself as a boss!

Decades ago our country took the road of socialism, eat together, work together, why failed? Why people are lazy? Why are now each person a piece of land? It is because at that time we mentality income is not good, we will not think of it at that time, because our country is a one-party dictatorship, no matter where you work, are working for the ****production party, before it is because of their own feeling of my own dry or not to affect the overall situation, we all think this way, it is a big mistake because the country's prosperity and demise, everyone has a duty to do so. They were too shallow. Now it's good, each of us for their own work, how much do you have much, is not it feel more real? But let's think about it, no matter whether we go to school or work, farming or investing in our own factories, is not it all for the sake of the ****productivity party, for the sake of our own good life? Why didn't we think of this at that time? This is the difference between the two kinds of mentality, determines the different destinies!

A bee fell next to an ant, which led the bee to visit its own house. The bee saw each ant laboring hard, some going to stock up on food, some building a new house, and some moving their young eggs. The bee was very curious, so it asked the ants: aren't you working so hard for people? The ant didn't know what it was talking about. The ant said: We all work for ourselves, stocking up on food for ourselves to wait for the winter, and building houses for ourselves to prevent the June rains. The difference between the bees and the ants work attitude tells us: mentality, is the key to success or failure!

In fact, to be successful, must have is confidence and ambition. Confidence, believe that they will be able to succeed; ambition, have a lofty goal.

Columbus dared to cross the Atlantic as long as he had a starlight. I also have a fountain pen, and a group of diehard friends, the world which can not break through?

Success, must be good five: fixed heart, positioning, shape, target, plan.

Fixed heart: a heart can not be used twice, the main thing to put in the center, chores put on both sides. Do a good job of "both come, then safe" mentality. Just like in love, people with two feet in two boats often can not get one, so we do what we have to be single-minded.

Definition of shape: the image of their own to determine a good, after all, people are animals, will also be to the appearance of people. When we first meet, we all judge people by their appearance, and after exchanges, we all judge people by their virtue. So we must pay attention to our own image.

Set goals, set plans: there is an ambitious goal, but the goal is always out of reach, we have to divide the goal into N plans, step by step to complete. An alarm clock was just bought, an alarm clock on the side said to it: boy, you have to tick 31536000 times a year. The new alarm clock freaked out, it felt too far away, it felt like it couldn't do it. Another old alarm clock tapped it on the shoulder and said, "Kid, don't bother, you just need to tick once a second. Is there such a simple thing? The new alarm clock felt very relaxed and casual. Unconsciously, time flowed like fine sand, and a year passed. Unconsciously, the new alarm clock also ticked 31,536,000 times. The psychology of the alarm clock tells us: mountain climbing should be ascended step by step!

Location: we have to set ourselves in a high position, for example, Li Ka-shing, think about what Li Ka-shing is doing every day? What are we all doing? Why can he succeed I can not? Should we think carefully about it? Secondly, one must also set oneself in a relatively low position. Only by looking up to others can one see what one should see from others and learn from them. In this way, a learning mindset is involved.

---- learning mindset. Speaking of learning involves a proverb: live and learn.

Everyone knows, no matter what industry, only insiders can make money, want to become an insider, only constant learning!

Now the times are developing so fast, one day do not learn you will fall behind a lot, a month do not learn you may be out of step with the times! Once not someone said: meeting said things, after the meeting this thing is out of date (that is to say, the meeting said this thing is good, after the meeting so short time this thing is backward), proving that the development of the times is so fast.

In fact, we are learning every day, watching TV is also learning ah. I am a rural child, I have never been to a five-star hotel, but when I watch TV I can see how they say, how to do, how to call the waiter, how to check out. This is also a kind of learning ah, is life less.

But learning involves two words: first, pressure. Pressure, people in the most critical time to realize the unlimited potential. Pressure is also very important, like in school, the English teacher often say, tomorrow will not be able to memorize these words, the penalty for a book, and then all the heart to memorize (although I let every day to punish the book, but I hate that teacher, my first teacher of English look like monkeys, hated him, disgusted with the house, so I will not learn well, then small, rebellious. (I hope you don't learn from me). This is the importance of pressure. The second thing is "interest". Interest, if you want to learn this thing in the easiest way, you have to be interested in it first, because only if you are interested in it, you will make time to learn it. Just like when a mother said to her child, learn this skill and you will never starve, the child was curious, then the mother taught the child how to eat; learn this skill and you can wear new clothes forever, then the child learned how to do laundry. It's funny, but it's the simplest analogy. And when I was in school, because I like ancient texts, so I got up very early every morning to memorize them, and I memorized all the ones I hadn't learned yet, and my classmates said it was because I had a good memory, but only I knew how much I paid for it. Because I love it! Or that old saying: want to use the easiest, fastest way to learn this thing, must be interested in it. Learning this most mundane thing there is also giving, so, no matter what we do, can not be separated from giving, which also involves a giving mentality.

---- giving mentality, the only trick to conquer the survival environment.

In fact, pay is the relationship between give and take, there is a give and take, big give and take, small give and take, no give and take. Life is like a bag, there is only so much space, you want to get some, you have to lose some, so that the balance, that is, fair, everyone is like this, the world is fair. It's like buying something, there's so much money in the world, there's so much stuff in the world, you buy something with your money, you don't have any more money, but you have something; he doesn't have anything, but he has money. You gave up money and got something; he gave up something and got money, isn't that balanced and fair?! I just graduated, so let's take an example from school: for example, a dormitory had four beds, and there were supposed to be three people, leaving one bed for luggage. Then you were moved over, because your past made their luggage put on the ground floor, so they all have some rejection of you from the inside. However, if you sweep the floor for them every day, fetch water, and bring them food, so that within a few days, they will feel that you are a person who can be socialized, and slowly, integrate you into their circle. In the company is also the same, you want to mix where, you must know how to pay. But sometimes, pay for the time being did not get the return, the simplest, like you help him sweep the floor today, he did not say a word of thanks, is not feeling very short-changed? In that case, it also leads to the fourth mentality: tolerance mentality.

---- tolerant mindset, dredging interpersonal barriers lubricant.

In fact, tolerance is needed everywhere, because we are all a single individual, all have their own shortcomings, all have their own privacy, all have their own emotions, all have their own temper, all have their own personality, all have their own way of thinking, all have their own tone of voice, all have their own way of doing things. But the world is still going smoothly, everyone's social circle is still so wide, and most people can get along harmoniously, is because each of us has a mentality - tolerance. Tolerance mentality to do a good job of people, his social circle is wide, and vice versa. In fact, tolerance is the most important thing is to learn to "think differently", stand in the other people's point of view to think about this matter, so it is easier to understand others, is not it? I just graduated, but also to give an example in school: for example, your desk this morning did not brush your teeth, so you taste very difficult, you stand in his point of view to think about, may be this morning he got up late, may be this morning the water room is out of water, may be his toothbrush lost, may be he did not have toothpaste. In this way, it will be easy to forgive him. However, forgiveness is not the same as indulgence: for example, if you swept the floor for him today, and next time it is his turn to do his duty, he will not do it as a matter of course, and this is your indulgence. Like the example of not brushing his teeth just now, it was an accident that he didn't brush his teeth for a day, but if he didn't brush his teeth for a week, he may have a problem with other people, so he should be reminded of this, and should not be indulged. Especially children, one year old to ten years old, once you indulge him, he will get an inch and intensify, so treating children can be tolerant, not indulgent! But how do you achieve a tolerant mind and make your heart free of aggression? This involves and tolerance of mind closely related to the ordinary mind.

---- ordinary mind, in fact, is your capacity. That is, joy and anger do not show on the surface, to put it bluntly is a person's mind and a person's city.

The usual state of mind is not caring. Mr. Tao Yuanming in the "Yueyang Tower" said a sentence: not to be happy with things, not to be sad. That means don't be too happy when you get it, and don't be too sad when you lose it. Mr. Su Shi also said in "The Discourse of the Marquis of Liou" that he would not be angry when he was attacked for no reason, and he would not be panicked when he was confronted suddenly. Those who have achieved great things must have the temperament of a victorious man, and have a measure that the common sense of ordinary people cannot endure. There is also Chairman Mao Zedong, who said, "I am not alarmed by favors and disgraces, but watch the flowers blossom in front of the garden; I have no intention to stay or go, but follow the clouds rolling in and out of the sky". Above a few people can say these words, that is how great mind ah! Like an example of my own thinking: if you have one hundred thousand dollars, and lose one dollar, you will not cry for this dollar; likewise, if you find one dollar, you will not be too happy for this dollar. But you would be sad if you lost all of the only one hundred thousand dollars you had, because that one hundred thousand dollars is all that exists in your heart, all that you have. Let's expand on that, if you had a billion dollars, you would not be too happy to find a hundred thousand dollars, and you would not be too sad to lose a hundred thousand dollars, because a hundred thousand dollars is only one ten-thousandth of a million dollars in your heart, so you would not be heartbroken. With that much, you don't care. If you have a girlfriend, break up, you may be sad; but if you have a hundred girlfriends, break up a you feel indifferent, do not care what. Oh, examples, although a little abstract, but also reflects a person's broad-mindedness! Another is the city, this is very good to understand. There is no city of people mood like the moon, every day is not the same. The depth of the city of people like a picture of the skin, every day is so calm. In fact, and the tolerance of mind, the ordinary mind and an optimistic mind.

---- optimistic mindset, we have to be like Lu Xun's "Q" Mr. learning!

Optimism is to think positively about everything. A bad saying, but very realistic: we are going to die a long time later, so we have to live happily every day! There are two stark examples: the first, there are two people to Beijing to catch the examination, the road bumped into a coffin, the first thought, grass, I have not yet examined the coffin, bad luck, dry his sister! The second thought, coffin, official, wealth, official and wealth. The results are obvious, the first thinking obviously atrophy, the exam exam a mess, the name fell; the second mood is extremely active, thinking is the limit of the proliferation of articles written unprecedentedly beautiful, I look at all the breathtaking, needless to say, marking the official, a move in the first place (hey, in the middle of the I pretended to be more than a time, don't scold me, don't hit me in the face, I'm relying on the face of the meal, in fact, I'm optimistic about doing it is also done! (the pinnacle, has been imitated, never been surpassed, haha). The second is an old lady, she has two sons, the older son sells cloth, the younger son sells umbrellas. But the old lady was in a bad mood every day, on cloudy days she thought: my elder son's cloth can't be sold; on sunny days she thought: my younger son's umbrella is not selling well. So much so that she became sick. A wise man gave to know about her, said to her: in fact, you have to be happy every day ah, cloudy days, the younger son's umbrellas sell well, sunny days, the older son's cloth sells fast, do not need to be sad every day. The old lady heard, (Yahei), think he said very reasonable, and then every day, happy, as the saying goes, people are happy, the disease soon also good, this is the greatness of optimism! This is the greatness of optimism! So we have to do a good job of optimism. Do a good job of optimism, we have to be disciplined. Self-discipline mentality is thus born -

---- self-discipline mentality, in fact, is to control themselves!

We don't care what we do, we have to control ourselves, life's biggest enemy is not others, but their own most familiar self. Want to succeed, you must control yourself to do a good job of achievement mentality, that is, five fixed; do a good job of achievement mentality, we also have to go to study, to keep an empty cup mentality to learn more things, to create interest in themselves, put pressure, so do a good job of learning mentality; pay is essential, because, no matter where you want to learn something you have to pay, the most basic in the school also have to pay tuition; want to learn, you have to play a good interpersonal circle, of course. To learn, you must play their own interpersonal circle, of course, occasional accidents are unavoidable, so the tolerance mentality is the premise of the learning mentality; to do a good job of tolerance mentality, but also and tolerance mentality and tolerance mentality associated with the ordinary mentality, optimistic mentality to do a good job. Other people will not care about you, everything has to rely on yourself, so the self-discipline mindset stands out! We do a good job of self-discipline mentality, we are successful, success after what to do? Gratitude!

---- gratitude mindset, gratitude mindset in my understanding is to thank so-and-so for their kindness!

We have to be a conscientious person, drip by drip, spring by spring. We have to be grateful to all the people in the world, the butterfly effect tells us that a small thing, a word, an action, can change the whole world, but this is too tiny, let's look at it from the macro side. Gratitude, that is, thanking so-and-so for their kindness to you. What kind of society is it now? It's a real society. How can you be thankful? Nothing more than sending money, gifts, very normal. But the premise of sending money we have thought about it? You open a company to lend me 100,000, in your company has not earned enough money in the case of how you thank? Therefore, the premise of gratitude is the first success, the first money. Success, the achievement of a good mindset, success will be closer and closer to us. Make money, want to become an industry insider, you must do a good job of learning mentality. Want to learn to pay, do a good job of paying mindset, but also do a good job of normal mindset, optimistic mindset, self-discipline mindset. Success, and then to be grateful! Thanks to all the world .....

The eight mentality like the gossip inside: dry, Kun, Kan, away, Zhen, Burgundy (gèn), Xun (xùn), against the same is inseparable. Do a good job of the eight mentality! Let's cheer together! Together to the top!

end: In fact, this is all written by my own perception, write two all-nighters, so tired ah, although tired, but I did not give up, because my mind to do a good job it! I'm so tired, but I didn't give up because my mind was doing so well! Uh, if there is not written in place also please high people point out .... Thanks ！！！！ Universe, Galaxy, Solar System, Earth-Moon System, Earth, Eastern Hemisphere, Asia, People's Republic of China, Henan Province, Kaifeng City, Tongxu County, Chengguan Town, So-and-So Village - Wang Junpeng completed in Xi'an on April 15, 2012, at 3:27 a.m., with the traveler (and I stayed up all night together), my best friend in Xi'an, Cao Lin. Cao Lin his girlfriend Guo Junna, Guo Junna's twin sister Guo Junxia four people

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