Douban 9.2 "Heaven" a heartfelt word: In order to prevent old age, don't say how great maternal love is.

More than 20,000 people scored full marks for the TV series "Heaven", but the lines in it can be said to be very arrogant and contrary to mainstream values, but the aphorisms and aphorisms of Christianity, Buddhism and Taoism are in perfect harmony.

In particular, the conflict between traditional filial piety and personal desire can definitely give people the feeling of "heavy blow" on the ethical level.

Male host Ding Yuanying, high IQ, highly educated. How advanced is his idea? Knowing that my father is seriously ill, even if he is saved, he is probably a vegetable. He asked the doctor directly: How can I let my father die?

When this sentence came out, not only his brothers and sisters, but also the audience were particularly shocked. As people who receive traditional education in China, our concept has always been "a father is kind and filial", and we should support our parents in time, instead of "a son needs to support and his relatives are absent". But what this man thought after his father's accident was how to let his father die in his sickbed. There seems to be a suspicion of dumping luggage and letting people poke their spine.

But Ding Yuanying thinks it is "foolish filial piety" to continue treatment! Because my father endured the illness and was lying in bed with a tube full of dignity, the real filial piety is to reduce the pain of the elderly and obey their wishes. In fact, what he said at the beginning was that if he was only dying, he would try his best to rescue him before he was determined to be a vegetative person, but if he was determined to be a vegetative person after the critical period, he would stop paying the fee and unplug the ventilator!

In his view, if a child's filial reputation is based on his father's pain and dignity, then this person is really nothing!

Should we spare no effort to treat our dying relatives regardless of physical pain and loss of dignity? Or should we keep our last dignity and silently accept parting? Everyone will have a different answer. Personally, I can't accept the pain of my parents leaving, but if it really comes to that, I will accept their request to leave.

Ding Yuanying replied: "If you raise your children to guard against old age, then don't say how great maternal love is. Raising them for yourself is an exchange. If you are not equal, you will lose. "

My brother called him unfilial, and he retorted that he didn't adapt to his parents' short life, and his parents didn't adapt to their own way of life, which was very contradictory!

Later, when his father died, he and his sister went to the cemetery to pay homage, and her sister accused him of not talking about his mother. After all, that's how everyone raises their children to prevent their old age. He answered a sentence that impressed me deeply:

At that time, I felt that his antipathy to traditional culture had really penetrated into his bones, and what he did was particularly deviant! But you have to admit that the role of "Ding Yuanying" is an unforgettable and distinctive response in mainland TV dramas full of entertainment and anti-intelligence, and it is getting younger and younger!

He thinks ahead, walks alone between heaven and earth, stubbornly does not associate with mainstream concepts and values, but he will not impose his own ideas on others. "Every deity and Buddha has its own meaning, and everyone has his own independent thoughts". With this in mind, Ding Yuanying enjoys his thoughts and lives in his own way.

People who repeatedly emphasize that "emotion doesn't need to be proved, and proof itself is blasphemy against emotion …" and "as long as emotion needs to be proved, it can't be called …" are actually very emotional people. "Such a seemingly lonely person is precisely a person with too rich emotions and too strong desire for love. Loneliness can make people feel keen. " If we have to interpret Ding Yuanying according to psychology, he can barely be classified as an "egoistic" personality. He tends to look for idealized and alienated current things and secular mistakes, and easily falls into his own emotions, but he can show a high degree of sympathy and strong emotional possessiveness.

Of course, this work is not only about family ethics, but also about business games, love, religion and so on. Friends who have seen it can discuss it, and those who have not seen it can try it. Wang really deserves to be an old joke. He vividly explained Ding Yuanying's understanding of the cultural attributes of China people and the state of the lowest human nature, and shaped his loneliness into the fullness of his body.