What is civilized politeness

Civilization and politeness is a traditional Chinese virtue. People's pursuit of life improves, their values are different, and their degree of civilization is also different!

Speech as an art is also an important part of personal etiquette. Etiquette is a human being to maintain the normal life of society and require people to *** with the observance of the minimum ethical norms, it is people in the long-term *** with the life and mutual interaction in the gradual formation, and to customs, habits and traditions and other ways to be fixed.

For a person, etiquette is a person's ideological and moral level, cultural cultivation, communicative ability of the external manifestations, for a society, etiquette is a country's social degree of civilization, morality and habits of life reflect. Attaching importance to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice.

Terms: honorifics, words of respect and courtesy. Such as the daily use of "please", "thank you", "I'm sorry", the second person in the word "you" and so on. The first time we meet for "long time"; a long time no see for "long time"; please criticize for "teach"; trouble others for "bother"; ask for convenience for "borrow light"; trust someone to do things for "please".

To try to develop the habit of using honorifics. Now, our country advocates the polite language is ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry", "goodbye". These ten words reflect the basic form of language that speaks civilized.

Meet to say: "Good morning!"" Hello!"

A good day begins with a kind and warm greeting - a hello. The first thing you do when you wake up in the morning is to greet your grandpa, grandma, parents and family with a "Good morning!" This cordial greeting conveys your respect and love for your elders and creates a warm family atmosphere. When you go to school and see your teachers and classmates, say "Good morning, teacher!" with a smile. ××x x classmates, hello!" In this simple and natural greetings, unconsciously shaping your own good image in the minds of others, cultivating the friendship between you and others.

Apologize to say: "I'm sorry!"" Please forgive me!"

People live in the world, there is no error. When you make a mistake, you should know how to apologize. Apologize to people, that is, to admit that their own speech or behavior or some practice is not good, and the guilt conveyed to the other party, asking for forgiveness.

Interrupting each other, bringing inconvenience to each other, or doing something wrong, if you promptly say a "sorry!"" Please forgive!" will repair the image you have been damaged.

When you can't go to a pre-arranged meeting, tell the other person in advance: "I'm sorry, I have something to do and I can't come."

When someone asks you to do something and you have to refuse for some reason, you have to say, "I'm sorry, I can't help you with this."

To say thank you, say: "Thank you!"" I'm sorry for the trouble!"

Whenever someone gives you a little convenience and care, even if this kind of care and help is the other party's business, you should also say: "Thank you!"" Give you trouble!"

Saying "thank you" should be done sincerely, with eyes full of gratitude looking into the eyes of the other party, sincerely, naturally and solemnly.

If you're asking for a favor, it's best to say, "Can you please do me a favor?" If the other person shows a difficult face, you have to say:

If you find it difficult, it's not a bother!"