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Traditional mate selection

Under different geographical and cultural conditions, men and women do have some universal standards and preferences in mate selection. First of all, many people prefer people with high academic qualifications and good conditions. Secondly, most people want each other's family background to be happy and harmonious. In addition, I hope the other person has a good personality and personality.

Many people have some standards and preferences when choosing a spouse, although in different regional cultures, many men and women have similar standards and preferences when choosing a spouse. Because in the universal values, most people will think that such standards are good, so their hearts are actually biased towards the following standards.

First of all, many people prefer people with high academic qualifications and good conditions. People are pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and they all hope to find a better home. This is what people mean by going up. When choosing an object, they are more willing to find someone with a relatively high educational level, because such a person with a higher education will make people feel more educated and civilized. The so-called good conditions, including the external conditions and economic conditions of the other party, are generally high in value and rich, which is what everyone said.

Secondly, most people want each other's family background to be happy and harmonious. For some people, they want each other to live in a relatively happy and harmonious environment when they are born in a family, because many people think that being born in a family will affect a person's personality. If there is no problem coming from a family, then this person should have no problem getting married in the future. Many people judge a person's ability to deal with feelings mainly by his family background.

In addition, I hope the other person has a good personality and personality. Apart from some external conditions, people prefer to find an object with good internal quality, such as hardworking, kind, virtuous, considerate, responsible and self-motivated. Everyone will prefer people with these good qualities, and it seems that life will be happier with them. If the other person is evil, lazy, unreasonable, irresponsible and not motivated, such a person is generally disgusting, and everyone will only think that this person will be eliminated by society sooner or later.

These are some of my related views.