Eastern and Western Views on Marriage

Many people believe that Westerners are romantic and sentimental, while Easterners are reserved and introverted. Maybe it's the difference in culture and geography between the East and the West that creates a different mindset.

In fact, I quite appreciate the Western kind of bold determination, fearless setbacks, courageous, as long as the affirmation of love, to the other side of the declaration, a I love you! Said out, successful, the achievement of a relationship, unsuccessful, but also to get a result, there is a conclusion. The Oriental people are more introverted and shy, in the expression of feelings, many times is love you in the heart mouth difficult to open. Big brother and sister, no one is not a roundworm in the stomach, not to say how to know it? Do not say clearly, will be wrong meaning is not good, right?

Westerners love directly, and even fanaticism, the East will consider the car, house, silver. But Westerners as long as love, she can go with you to wander with a backpack. Because of love, a handsome man can marry a woman who survived a serious burn and revitalize her to become strong in life.

The Oriental, especially Asian, idea that men are superior to women, although it seems to fade with the passage of time, but if a man he is out to earn money and his wife is at home as a full-time wife, he will feel that he is supporting the whole family alone, and his wife is not doing anything.What!May I ask, who brings up the children in your house? Who does the sanitation at home? Who buys the groceries? Your wife does it all. You give her money for the household, but you don't pay her salary. Please, don't say I earn your bread and butter, wife. She also pays and pays more than you.

Westerners give the impression that they are sexually open and that gender relations are casual and messy. Maybe so, but with the world's commonwealth, and now the increasing exchange of culture between the East and the West, the degree of openness of many Easterners staggers the Westerners.

Although Westerners are open, they can still be friends even if they are divorced, in fact, it is good for the growth of children, at least not let the children grow up in hatred, so that they understand that even if their parents are separated, their love for them is unchanged. As long as they love each other, they don't care if the other is a virgin, or the other has children, and are equally happy to accept.

And the Oriental man, especially the Asian man, he can allow himself to have many girlfriends before he is married, but not allow his wife is not a virgin. Or a divorced woman with a son, it's hard for you to remarry because a man wants to marry you, but he doesn't want to pay for your son's marriage. You are lucky with a daughter and the man can marry you because he doesn't have to foot the bill when your daughter marries later. Can't see it, men are quite utilitarian, that abacus dial fine sound.

Some people say, talk about love to find foreigners, they are romantic enough, talk about the heart, looking for Oriental, especially Chinese men. Seriously? As soon as you take it seriously, you lose, you do not see how many headlines in the criticism of those scum men, are Chinese. However, the East and West do have different concepts of love, marriage, it is difficult to say what is right and what is wrong, only, time will test everything.

The expression of feelings, the East is indeed inferior to the West. Let's talk about the expression of emotions between husband and wife. Westerners are used to kissing their wives and children before going to work or coming back from work, and whenever a wife or husband gives something to the other, she or he will say thank you! In fact, this is a very good expression of emotion, a kind of love and gratitude. However, the Oriental people, especially the Chinese, there is no such concept, kiss each other, may be a couple in love will do, after marriage, may wish to do a survey, how many couples after marriage, before going to work or home from work, will kiss their husbands or wives, I dare to say, absolutely none. Because they do not feel the need. The first thing you need to do is to show your love and gratitude, and you don't need to do that after you get married?

Why is it that many Chinese couples don't get married for long, and feel that their lives are as dull as water and tasteless, because they ignore the fact that love needs to be preserved, and if you forget to express your love in your heart after you get married, and take the other person's goodness for you for granted, then the relationship will soon turn into a straight line. On the other hand, the Western romantic is they know love to have a long time, must be the heart of the thought of love to tell each other, let each other feel each other's love.

Whether it is the East or the West, the concept of a good marriage, the way to express it is worth learning, try to say to your loved ones, love is eternal, when the loved one is you!

The concept of marriage is worth learning.