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Some people say that filial piety is a kind of moral kidnapping. Why do you say that?

In China family, parents always emphasize filial piety. They must be right. Is the filial piety of these China people a kind of moral kidnapping?

Viewpoint 1: Before answering this question, we need to understand one thing: Why do parents have children? The reasons are as follows: 1. Social pressure has made us all have children, but it seems inappropriate for me not to have children. In order to satisfy his sexual desire, he accidentally gave birth to a child. I'm not satisfied with my work. I have a child to support myself. The crystallization of love is the bond of family. 5. Biological instinct, to continue their genes, don't let your family break up. The above basically includes fertility reasons.

Why do mainstream media advocate filial piety? 1. This country needs this to strengthen its rule. Everyone has done this for thousands of years. 2. Another advantage of doing this is to push the old-age care to the next generation, and to clarify the responsibility of the state with morality and morality. If every old man dies of illness and old age, the state will be responsible for it. I don't think there is such a topic at all, and there will be no moral kidnapping. Examples of unfilial in reality will almost disappear.

Viewpoint 2: I am a middle school principal. I always talk about a topic at the parent-teacher meeting of Grade One: Which of our parents gave birth to a child because they wanted to love a child they had never seen before? Which parent gave birth to his (her) child with his (her) consent, and let him (her) come to this world not only to experience happiness, but also to experience infinite pain and suffering? Don't! Since we have done unfair things to our children, who are we to ask them to obey their parents' wishes in the future? ! For thousands of years, China people have been repeating the theory of "repaying kindness with kindness, not being a gentleman", but at the same time deliberately ignoring the responsibilities of parents and instilling the filial piety of "father and son" into their children!

Viewpoint 3: The question and answer in the invitation is too challenging. If you don't pay attention, you will be pushed to the moral stage. However, thanks for the invitation, be sure to answer! Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Filial piety is a natural and just issue. Why did the ancients add the prerequisite of "filial piety between father and son"? Preconditions must be added to the discovery, because there are many examples in history that have been nailed to the historical shame column because of ignorance and filial piety, such as the Wang Ning Uprising in Zhengde period of Ming Dynasty, the father-son traitor in War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression period and so on. Parents should set a good example for their children while instilling obedience and filial piety. For example, Yue Wumu and Yue Fei are typical dutiful sons. During the period of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, the War of Liberation and the Great Patriotic War, many models of filial piety emerged, and even the whole family made selfless contributions to it!