I am a nanny, and my employer always gives my steamed bread away. What's her psychology?

Your task is to do things, not to accuse the boss of giving things away.

The boss gave your steamed stuffed bun away because the boss recognized your skills, not because of any psychology. As a nanny, you shouldn't "question" what the employer wants to give up. You just need to complete the task assigned by your boss.

First of all, it can be explained that your employer will think the steamed stuffed bun is delicious before giving it away. Then there is the delicious food you wrapped, and the employer has to show it off to others.

A few years ago, I worked as a nanny in a family. There are five people in this family, four middle-aged and elderly people and one young man. The host and hostess are in their fifties, the son is in his twenties, and the hostess's mother-in-law and father-in-law.

These two old people are children in-laws. One of them is in his seventies and the other is in his eighties.

There are four permanent residents in his family, and his master son is a graduate student in Beijing. He usually doesn't come back, but only comes back during Chinese New Year holidays, such as Spring Festival, 1 1 month, May Day.

My job is to do housework and cook. His family just started to live in a duplex room, 260 square meters.

I cook three meals a day, wash clothes and clean.

Cooking should be done on time, because there are old people eating, so time can't be delayed, and it can't be five minutes in the evening.

The father of the male employer went downstairs for dinner on time without a minute's delay.

This female employer has three sisters, she is the eldest, and two sisters also live in this city.

My little sister is close to home and always walks to see her mother.

Their sisters have dinner every Saturday, and most of the time they eat at her sister's house. I will often cook for them.

This female employer is almost sixty years old, and I will be almost forty at that time! She is nearly twenty years older than me, so I call her aunt and her husband calls me uncle.

This family, old and young, is very kind to me and buys me everything.

Including pajamas, bracelets, aprons, slippers, towels, sleeves, toothpaste, toothbrushes and footbath. ...

During the Spring Festival, I went to my home and went to see my father with a gift.

Rice for my father. White flour, melatonin, roast duck, native chicken.

Although my aunt and uncle are employers, they never look down on me. They regard me as a relative. They all eat together. The guests have to wait for me to serve dinner. I went for a while at night, trying to clean up the kitchen quickly, but they wouldn't let me.

Tell me to eat quickly again and again. When I came up, my aunt gave me a bowl of seafood, crabs, shrimp reptiles, prawns, ribs and chicken wings. ...

I was tired at that moment and forgot to be tired! I was moved to tears!

How rare such an employer is!

It's really hard to meet! Nice to meet my uncle and aunt.

Maybe my cooking is to their taste, so this big family especially loves my cooking, including my two sisters and two families, as well as my uncle's brothers and sisters. They all like it and are full of praise. Working in his house makes me feel particularly fulfilled. My uncle's brothers are called uncles, uncles, aunts and aunts. They always play jokes on me when I go.

As soon as they entered the room, they called me: Say Xiaohong, here we come again! [Cover your face] I said all your bones are here [grin]

At that time, I was working at my aunt's house. Although I am tired, I am not depressed at all. I did what I wanted, and I'm in charge. No one is meddling and no one is pointing fingers.

I steam steamed bread once a week, and there are many packages. After eating, there are more than 20 left, which are delicious.

My name is Mu, my aunt's mother. She always takes a dozen steamed buns home for her daughter to eat.

Question: I'm a nanny, and my employer always gives my buns away. What's her psychology?

She is thinking about her daughters, afraid that they will not be able to eat, and feel sorry for their daughters! Maybe my daughter is lazy and unwilling to do it, maybe she doesn't have time to do it, and the little sister of the female employer can't cook, let alone steam steamed buns!

Sometimes my aunt will give my steamed bread to my neighbors and get along well with them.

My aunt's heart is to keep in touch with her neighbors. A distant relative is better than a close neighbor!

Although I am a little tired, they gave away all the fruits of my labor, but I can't say anything, let alone complain, because the menstruation family is so kind to me, what is it if I do more work?

As long as they are satisfied and happy, they can give it to whoever they like! [yeah] [yi tooth]

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You are a nanny, and my employer always gives my steamed bread away. What's her psychology? First of all, I'm sure you have a good level of steamed buns here. Usually steamed buns are very experienced and outstanding, and you have a good grasp of the temperature of steamed buns and steamed buns.

The employer ate your steamed bread and felt really good. In order to keep in touch with people and promote unity, they will show their talents at the lowest cost, which is an affirmation and promotion of your steamed stuffed bun skills.

From this point of view, steaming steamed bread is not simple, and your cooking is good. Although you are a nanny, you do a good job and have a certain level of cooking. You have made achievements in the general service industry and have your own unique skills.

You are not a simple nanny. In your ordinary post, you have done ordinary and glorious work. You are very capable and excellent. I hope you will make persistent efforts and make further progress!

Don't be afraid of being tired. You can steam as many steamed buns as she sends, so as to achieve a balance between supply and demand, and mutual cooperation can last forever.

It's just that the nanny is tired, and her reluctance is obvious and understandable, right?

Maybe employers have always been generous people. Of course, it doesn't rule out nanny skills, okay

Otherwise, why give away shapeless and tasteless buns? However, the psychological factors of showing off and showing off will have both, right?

For example, it is good to have a nanny at home! Ta steamed stuffed bun is so good, I'll give you a long knowledge! Yun Yun.

If at the same time of improving her social status, she also made a free advertisement for the nanny's steamed stuffed bun craft, would she feel glad?

People leave their names, geese leave their voices. Good steamed stuffed bun skills are in the body. If you are famous, that is the foundation of your foothold and the road to success.

I worked hard and gained the appreciation of others. If the employer is happy about it, if he can increase his salary, it will certainly be a win-win result!

Your steamed bread must be delicious, and the employer will give it to others to taste. If I were you, I would respect your work, meet and communicate with you before giving it away, and I shouldn't always give it away, which will inadvertently increase your workload.

As a nanny, your employer always gives away your steamed bread. She is an employer, you can't deprive her of her rights. You don't feel comfortable when your employer sends out steamed buns, but you can't offend your employer.

Your employer didn't hire you as a nanny to stop you from working. Being lazy will only make your employer dismiss you. If the employer asks you to steam steamed buns, you steam them. It is not your responsibility for employers to eat or give them away. It is enough for you to do a good job as a nanny, but getting a high salary every month is not enough for you to buy steamed buns outside.

You steamed bread, which was bought by the employer. You just need to cooperate with your employer to steam steamed bread. As for what the employer wants, there is no need to ask.

Your employer hired you to do the housework. If you are satisfied, your employer may continue to hire you. You didn't say anything when she asked you to steam steamed bread. You can't stop your employer from sending buns to others.

Your jealousy and jealousy will only make you unhappy. Why bother? Steamed buns also make you frown. Since you are not qualified to be a nanny, you should fire your employer and never set foot in your employer's house again! If the employer hires you, you must obey. Although you steam steamed bread for your employer, your employer has to eat it himself. However, it must be very hard for your employer to give away your steamed bread.

If you don't want your employer to send you steamed buns, you don't have to be a nanny at your employer's house. In the face of high salary, if you are still worried about your employer giving people steamed buns, you can only fire your employer and leave. This is a very simple thing.

Why do people who are nannies think so much now? As an employer, it takes out your steamed stuffed bun and shares it with others, which shows that your employer thinks that your nanny's cooking is delicious. Since it's delicious, show it to others and let them know that the nanny hired by the employer really has several brushes. As his nanny, you should feel that your employer is a person who loves you. How can you be ungrateful?

Steamed buns are an ancient traditional pasta, which originated in Sichuan and is said to have been invented by Zhuge Liang during the Three Kingdoms period. Xiaolongbao refers to steamed bread or sweet cake wrapped with meat, bean paste or other fillings, which means "wrapped in gold and silver" and stands for "full of gold and silver". But "steamed stuffed bun" is the network language in the community or forum. But it refers to people who submit to humiliation, are timid, deserve to be bullied and will not fight back. In some dialects, steamed stuffed bun means silly and refers to honest people. Honest people will not harm others, let alone betray others, which is a valuable good quality. It is a blessing to have such friends around you, so we should cherish them.

As far as I know, there are two reasons why employers give their employees buns wrapped by themselves. One is to steam too much and eat it, so give some to others. Second, she didn't like it and didn't want to waste it, so she gave it to others.

Don't ask me how I know, because that's who I am! Sometimes it's too much, or it doesn't suit your taste, so give it away decisively!

The first one may think that your cooking is good and your steaming is delicious. Second, I don't care about the fruits of other people's labor. Anyway, I'm not working or tired. Before, my employer owed someone a debt of gratitude. Take your steamed stuffed bun back!