"Mom reads picture books" and being a "farmer" mother —— A warning of a seed

My mother has to admit that although Mr. Ye Shengtao's name is a household name, his works have never been read. Fortunately, I received a "seed" for reading seeds, and I was somewhat dissatisfied. How much pleasure and value can the fairy tale of an old gentleman who cut his braid not long ago bring us in such a period of rapid development?

When you were one year old and seven months old, you pointed to the big flower on the cover with a book "A Seed" brought back by your mother and exclaimed, "Wow, wow-"Then you came up with the book in your hands and said, "Mom tells stories."

Just open the book. Mom holds you in her arms and reads word by word. But you ran away. This story is a bit difficult for you. Mom couldn't put it down and read it carefully. Reading from page to page, I can't help getting excited. This is not a fairy tale for children, it is a warning to parents all over the world! The works written by Mr. Ye in 192 1 year accurately describe people's mentality today!

A unique seed can produce beautiful flowers and give off a strange fragrance, which everyone loves. Kings love it, rich people love it, businessmen love it, and soldiers love it, but it refuses to sprout for those who love it. A farmer planted it in the soil and plowed, hoed and watered it as usual. Germinate when it should sprout, germinate when it should sprout, and sprout when it should bloom. When it opens, it is in full bloom, emitting a strong fragrance, which makes everyone who comes near dirty.

In fact, you are the only "seed" in the hands of mom and dad. When your "seed" comes to us, mom and dad are full of ardent love and expectation. I hope you will thrive under our care. Every father and mother have such a "seed" in their hands, but why don't some "seeds" germinate?

Let's look at the king first. He planted the seeds in a white jade basin, and the soil was carefully selected. He has to "sift and sift", and the poured water is "filtered and filtered". He was worried that the seeds would get cold and built a stove in the greenhouse. What meticulous care!

Look at that rich man. He not only planted the seeds in platinum jars, but also recruited four gardeners from more than 300 people to cultivate the seeds. Gardeners are well paid and do their best. What a high quality training!

There is also a businessman who plants seeds next to his shop. He only looked at them once in the morning and at night, but didn't see what he was doing. What ardent expectations!

Another soldier, planting seeds next to the barracks, only squatted by and watched with a short gun in the next drill. Still won't tell others the secret of the seed. What a firm wait.

Kings and rich people do their best to cultivate seeds, while businessmen and soldiers do nothing at the other extreme. What they finally got was disappointment.

The farmer found the seed, planted it in the soil, and then "he worked, plowed, hoed and watered as usual". For that seed, he also "plowed, hoed and watered everything". In a few days, the seeds germinated, and in a few days, they stood in the field like small trees. Small trees grow and grow, with flowers as big as watermelons and strange fragrance.

Compare it with real-life mothers. The "king type" dotes on children, isolates them from the normal environment and limits their natural growth; The "affluent" type gives children all kinds of extra-long classes and carries out "quality" education, which looks good, but it virtually makes children "overnourished", which is difficult to digest and absorb, and also hinders their natural growth; "Businessman type" and "soldier type" do nothing, and there will be no natural growth without the environment for children to grow up; "Farmer type" is to provide a suitable environment according to children's needs!

This is the behavior of mothers, and then compare their mentality.

The king hopes to have this magical seed, and hopes that the seed can bring him dignity and show his supreme power; Rich people think that seeds can make him look elegant, imposing manner over all rich people; The businessman hopes that seeds will bring him wealth; The soldier hoped that these seeds would bring him good luck. When the seeds didn't bring them everything they wanted, they angrily abandoned the seeds, but never reflected on whether they had done anything wrong. On the other hand, what farmers want is an environment for seeds to grow! When the seeds produce beautiful flowers, the farmers still just "work as usual and come and go in the fields." When he walked past this strange flower, he stood for a moment, looking at the flowers and leaves, with a gentle smile on his lips. "

Mothers in real life also have secular expectations! And this expectation is also an invisible pressure for children. When the pressure is great enough, the natural growth of children will stop.

A warning from a seed to my mother is to be a farmer's mother and give you a suitable environment according to your needs, without excessive care, encouragement and indulgence; Give you unconditional and unexpected love, don't show off your mother's capital, don't expect you to be anything, you will become yourself on the fertile soil of your mother!

This is my mother's feeling, "A hundred readers have a hundred Hamlets". How will you feel when you can read this story? Let nature take its course Or, be your own "seed" and let your mother talk? Hehe, in short, you have your own experience. Mom only provides reading opportunities, and you have the right to interpret it yourself!