What are the customs of the wedding night in the ancient traditional society

Traditional Chinese Wedding Night Customs:

1. Setting a Good Wedding Day

You need to follow the bride's physiological cycle, and ask the feng shui master to choose a lucky day as the wedding day. This is generally by the man to find the most famous local feng shui gentleman, according to the men and women's birthdays and eight characters, measured the best auspicious day for marriage. The family should take some cigarettes, wine and snacks to the gentleman as a token of appreciation.

After the date is set, the in-laws entrust the matchmaker to take some gifts to the woman's home to send the day. If the woman's family accepts the date, the wedding day is set. If the woman's family returned the day, it means that there is a problem with the day, not good, need to re-point. Most of the day back is not unlucky, but mainly because the day coincides with the girl's menstrual period. At this time, the male parent should bring gifts again to Feng Shui Mr. point day. Mr. Feng Shui this point of the day, certainly than the last push back or advance about 15 days.

2. to the new man cave

This is to the new man with the room before the "warm-up", in ancient times, the husband and wife in the same room before the two sides may have never seen each other, the night to skin to skin, may be a little unnatural, affecting the sex life. Although the bride out of her mother's home before, the women in the family have told her some rules, especially into the cave after the rules, but also to the girl to see the "bottom of the box", that is, a few pairs of different materials, the better is the ivory, almost is the bamboo or something engraved "yellow pictures", so that the bride has a basic psychological preparation.

After entering the bridal chamber, the groom's relatives and friends to make trouble, so that the newcomers to do a variety of intimate, hidden, but pointing to a very clear action. The bride and groom's strangeness and shyness are put to rest. For that exciting moment to pave the way, this is the crowd *** with the participation of the "foreplay". The bridal chamber depends on the bride, neither very quickly agreed to do the program, but also can not be rigidly determined not to do, to pinpoint the right balance.

3. Female three days back to the door to heal

The bride in the third day of marriage, to be her brother or brother to take the bride back to live for three days. Then the bridegroom will pick her up and bring her back. The apparent meaning is that the bride has grown up around her parents, and after leaving home this time, she is afraid of missing her family, so she has to go back to see her parents.

In fact, it is the bride at that time the door does not come out, not to step out, most of them are virgins. Virgin first night, hymen damage, more pain. The groom is the time of youthful vigor, and then do not know how to pity, we are worried that the bride can not stand, so, the bride in the name of missing parents to take back "healing".