If you want your child to have a happy childhood, should you enroll him in an interest class?

In the evening, my sister next door came over. At that time, my daughter clamored for me to show her a dance video and let me watch the song "Red Sarilang". After I chose, she asked me to help her tie a ball head and put on a veil like a dancer on TV. Well, as long as she doesn't make trouble, this requirement will satisfy her.

Seeing her daughter dancing, my sister said that children like dancing, so it is better to sign up for a dance class. I don't know how old a child is to be admitted to a dance class. I said, about four years old. She didn't sign up before, but now that she is old, she should consider what class to sign up for, so she chatted one by one. ...

It is true that after children go to kindergarten, all kinds of interest classes are overwhelming. Parents' opinions are also mixed. Some parents have reported many interest classes to their children, hoping that their children can be versatile. Some parents say that children should have a happy childhood and don't sign up for too many interest classes, so as not to put too much pressure on their children. So should I enroll in the interest class? How should I report it?

1. Skills of choosing interest classes

Parents can choose suitable interest classes according to their children's interests and ages. If you learn musical instruments, experts recommend that children learn them after they are 4 years old. In addition, choosing interest classes suitable for children can better promote children's development, otherwise, it will be counterproductive.

2. Understand the requirements of different interest classes for children's physical and intellectual development.

Parents should have a deep understanding of the selected interest classes in order to have a clear goal. Expert's suggestion: Unilateral sports training is not suitable for children who are too young, such as table tennis. In addition, roller skating is not suitable for children who are too young, which is not only dangerous, but also affects children's bone development.

3. Look at the influence of interest classes on children in the long run.

Interest classes can expose children to many new things, become more confident and bold, and improve their abilities in all aspects. Some parents think that taekwondo and martial arts have a narrow future, so they should choose instruments or interest classes that will help their children get extra points in the college entrance examination ... In fact, it may be that parents' interests that were not optimistic at first play a key role in their children's future growth.

4. What should I do if my child encounters difficulties in attending an interest class?

Parents should first find out the so-called difficulty of their children. If they can succeed through hard work, they need the encouragement and support of their parents. I believe he can do it. If it is really out of reach, then try to lower the requirements, communicate and coordinate with the teachers in the interest class, divide the difficulties into several sections, overcome them one by one, and step by step. In this way, children will not only feel isolated in the face of difficulties, but also increase their self-confidence and will not give up easily when they encounter setbacks in the future.

5. An important basis for selecting training institutions

Brand, word-of-mouth and teaching philosophy are the important basis for parents to choose training institutions. In addition, the founder may not engage in education, but he must understand education and children. From the child's point of view, give full play to the child's nature, tap the child's potential, and truly do everything for the child.

In short, parents must carefully consider choosing interest classes for their children and don't blindly follow suit. Raising children, like raising plants, requires not only the love and proper care of parents, but also enough space for them to grow.

Our children may not be successful, but they must be happy people.

There is no pause button in a child's life. For this goal, only under the guidance of love and responsibility can parents constantly revise the direction of education, can they give their children a pair of strong wings and watch him sail and break the waves.