Sister-brother love in today's society under the helpless move, but played a two-for-one role, why?

Often in the traditional Chinese concept of marriage and family, the age of the man must be greater than the woman, so that the normal combination, or will be subjected to other people's criticism and even blame. So sister and brother love in the end is good? What are the pros and cons to pay attention to?

Prerequisite understanding:

The reason for the beginning of the sibling love is mostly because one or both of the same age in the search for the love of their own, but in the sister or brother in the body to see some of the qualities of their favorite.

Since it's your favorite, listen to your heart and choose the one you love. Such a cognizance must be buried deep in the hearts of both sides of the sibling relationship, otherwise it will be difficult to last.

One of the benefits of sister-brother love: to be able to experience a different experience of love with the same age

The experience of the man is less than the woman, there will be a kind of natural little man's mood, which is more stimulated by the woman's innate motherhood, more and more on the man to take care of a lot. The woman's maturity and knowledge also let the man realize that the same age of the girl kind of bad behavior is not their favorite, and turn more appreciate the woman.

Benefits of sister-brother love two: explore each other's enthusiasm is much greater than the same age couples

Two people because of the age difference, it is likely to grow up in the experience is not the same, so both sides in fact, is very happy to listen to the other half of the different generations of their own childhood experience. The passion to explore each other is very strong, just like touching something new, curious to explore.

The benefits of sister-brother love three: the possibility of learning from each other, get along more harmoniously

The woman because of the man is more older, the social experience will be more than the man, and the man is the most need is the experience, so at this time in the relationship, the man will learn a lot of things will be a lot of significance and the role of the man will be very large. The woman on the new technology, new ideas also need to learn more from the man. Two people can learn from each other, appreciate each other, then get along is more harmonious.

One of the drawbacks of sister-brother love: the generation gap is too large, it is difficult to bridge

If the age gap between the two is too large, it is likely that the values, the world view, the outlook on life and so on cognitive are different, the differences in the depth of this thought may lead to the two generation gap is too large, and ultimately will be separated.

The disadvantages of sister-brother love two: the economic pressure on the man will be greater, the woman will be more anxious

Every relationship if not consider the results of the words can only become bitter love, the reality of the problem need to be considered by both sides to the deep. When the two sides need to face marriage, they will encounter such problems as the man's young career is not yet, the financial resources are not good, and the woman because of the age itself is in a hurry, do not leave enough time for the man. This may be one of the reasons why brother-sister relationship can not go to the marriage hall.

With the development of economy and society, sibling love is more and more common nowadays. However, in reality, it seems that people still have certain scruples about sister-brother love. In fact, whether from the physical or psychological, brother-sister love has its advantages. Perhaps, the feelings of sibling love can really go farther oh.

For a long time, men and women's concepts of choosing a spouse are mirrored. For example, men always love to look down and watch, looking for a daughter-in-law to find young and beautiful, the best year eighteen years old. Women, on the other hand, look forward to all day, hoping to find a mature man older than themselves as a husband, if the gold and gentle that is the best.

With the development of economy and society, unknowingly, the traditional concept of love has been broken, there are a lot of men looking for older women to be their wives! This is what we usually call "sister-brother love". This has greatly subverted the traditional concept of choosing a spouse. However, since the existence of sister and brother love must have its reason for existence, it has its unique benefits.

One: the sister needs a brother to love.

Women's motherhood is born with, in fact, motherhood can not be narrowly understood as the mother of the children that way. Motherhood is natural and instinctive. The way you treat your own siblings will also show the shadow of "motherly love". Some women are happy to find a partner who is younger than they are because they find that they are more in love with a husband who is younger than they are. It's not that they mix other feelings with their love, it's a genetic thing that they are born with. They are always happy to take care and happy to give to the one they love. And as a younger brother lover, they also want to have someone to lean on when they are vulnerable.

Additionally, Chinese men have always been criticized by women for relying too much on their mothers, and sibling relationships are the perfect solution to this thorny problem. The younger sibling lover feels motherly in his older partner, which can make things a lot smoother between the two. A woman who takes motherly care of her younger brother lover can also satisfy her own caregiving proclivities, so to speak.

Find a younger brother lover does not mean that the woman when the top pillar, the man is still between the two when the pillar of one. So, find a younger husband, they are small but still a piece of heaven at home. Wife outside all the bad and aggrieved can be "brother" confided in the spit. When the wife is older, they can be more tolerant of their husbands when they are in trouble!

Two: the brother needs but a little rationality.

Men always like cute girls, but they do not like to always coax you, always take care of your emotions, and put their own emotions aside. Doing so is fine for a while, but in the long run, no one can do it. Sometimes in his free time, men also want to be pampered with women, and we all pair off once in a while, which is also a kind of love affair.

While entering the new era, the traditional marriage model of the man outside the woman inside is still more prevalent, and the man is the breadwinner as a matter of course. On the other hand objectively also caused a lot of pressure on the man. No one wants to go home and face his wife's temper at the end of a hard day's work. In dragging the tired body and mind into the home, they need is just a little bit of rationality of the wife, can take good care of the family, don't also want to let him be a judge to decide the case. In their own physical and mental exhaustion, their wives can take care of their own feelings, not just make their own little temper.

So, find a wife of age, they are rational but not lose lovely, in his most need a warm and warm hug, send up will not be a small temper and do not understand. Men are always good at dealing with small and large things, plus a understanding of the "big daughter-in-law", they will not be too dependent on their husbands, so the family and social affairs will be twice as effective.

Three: The younger brother's lover can make the woman younger.

It's amazing, isn't it? Having a younger brother lover can make a woman become younger without realizing it. First, in terms of sex life. Sister-brother love is generally more harmonious sex life. Because the woman is relatively mature, will tolerate the male youthfulness. For men, having a mature partner at the time of youthfulness is unattainable.

The second is in the maintenance and dressing. With a younger brother's lover by your side, as a woman, do you still dare to be casual with yourself? Maintenance is thus on the agenda. Women who know how to take care of themselves will enjoy the beauty of life, invariably have a good life mindset, and the whole person also looks young. In terms of dressing, looking at each other youthful and lively, they will also follow the dress up youth. In this regard, the sister-brother love can let the woman benefit a lot.

Four: The younger brother lover makes the relationship sweeter.

Because young, so the expression of feelings is more bold and unrestrained, which is a lot of benefits to the development of their relationship. Because people and people, many times the real inappropriate rarely, most of the life by all kinds of friction misunderstanding caused by bad feelings, feel and each other can not get along, and ultimately lead to the breakup of feelings. Brother lover straight to the point, invariably breaking down barriers. Even if a mature woman is used to introverted and subtle, she will become enthusiastic as a result, and it's only natural that their feelings will heat up. It is important to know that not only people need vitality, feelings also need vitality, which determines how long it can burn.

Every morning, from the moment he opens his eyes, he will say to you, "Honey, I love you," "Honey, you are the most beautiful in the world," "Eeyore, really cute." And so on. Can you not be hypnotized?

Five: The complementarity of life.

Brother and sister love is just a kind of objective existence of the phenomenon of love, we can not be attached to the shackles of morality. Anyone who needs true love, is this and age have to do with it? Even when we meet something we can't understand, we can't immediately turn our backs on it. Just as we couldn't understand that the earth is round before, but now we still think it's the right thing to do?

Just as a woman's pampering isn't based on age, a man's mastery doesn't change because he's young. As long as you have true love, age is not an issue. The important thing is how we rationalize them now. If you are torn and hesitant because of your age and miss out on a good man for you, this is the real loss.

The love combination of "sister and brother" is not mainstream, but the existence is reasonable, and this kind of love does have many advantages.

Sister-brother love love broke through the heavy obstacles of the world, each other cherish this hard-won feelings, so each other solid emotional foundation.

"Sibling love" love in the woman, will be in the young boyfriend's influence, more than the same age than the younger, more active thinking, more vitality. The man will be under the influence of a mature girlfriend, expanding horizons and ideas, rapid maturity. As the two establish a virtuous cycle, they will be more vibrantly nourished in their relationship.

Sister loves brother because brother has the mature and unique charm that other men don't have that attracts her, and brother loves sister because sister has the grace and gentleness that other women don't have. There is no outstanding man, there is no outstanding woman, there will not be the world's wonderful sister-brother love.