How to change a person's mindset

The way of thinking is the inner program of people's brain activity, which plays a decisive role in people's speech and behavior (and even influence the external world). The way of thinking on the surface of the immaterial, like the human mind, colorless and intangible, can not be captured, it is mainly due to the influence of the acquired environment (culture and education); the way of thinking is in fact with the material, the cerebral cortex of the same thing will cause the cortex to reflect the cortical "synapses" to produce some kind of chemical reaction and physical (bioelectrical) impulses and to change the transmission according to the "established pathway". The brain cortex reflects on the same thing, causing the cortical "synapses" to generate certain chemical reactions and physical (bioelectrical) impulses, and to change and transmit them according to "established pathways", forming certain ideas (thoughts) in the brain. This interplay of non-material and material influences, "nothing begets something, something begets nothing", can constitute a paradoxical movement in the evolution and development of the way of thinking.

There are two sides to everything in the world, there is no absolute truth, there is no absolute purity, I think you will always think of bad things, perhaps because you are not very happy, and the environment in which you grew up is not very optimistic, or perhaps it is your preconceived notions of the society are too deep, everything is to look at the point of openness, don't think about it too much, and work hard to pursue their own pursuit of not to care too much about the world

Like the weather, we can't complain about the cloudy days, and it's impossible to have a sunny day forever,

How to change your thinking. It's all about having a good mindset yourself.

Bad things, you go to think about its good side,

Good things, you also go to imagine its bad side,

For example, I give an example, when one day, one of your best friends cheated you, you are very angry, you want to cut off friendship with him from now on, at this time, you think the other way around, maybe your friend also has a hard time, but also that is that is his good intention to you! Goodwill lies it, I think as long as we have a tolerance of goodness and harmony of mind to look at everything, maybe you will feel the bad things may be a good thing,

Most of the mood depends on their own, when the mood is good when what is smooth,

Moody things, not used to seeing things, but also to learn how to comfort themselves,