Interpretation of rural traditional rules

The first is these four points. 1, visit the elderly and patients at noon. ? A day's plan lies in the morning? In the morning, the sun is at its peak, and both the elderly and the sick belong to people with yin deficiency, so when the sun is at its peak, the host's visit will be very welcome. 2. When visiting a patient, the patient's condition suddenly worsened, so it is not advisable to leave immediately. An old saying? When people die, three souls leave two and a half souls? If you leave at this time, it will make your family feel diaphragm, and your condition will get worse after you come. If something happens to the patient, the main family will feel even worse. Pregnant women and parturients can't go to see their new wives, sit on their beds or touch their things. This will not only affect others, but also harm your own children. After the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, neither the daughter nor the children can go back to their parents' home. In ancient times, the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month was the day of offering sacrifices to stoves. After this day, it will bring bad luck for girls and children to go back to their parents' homes, and crops will not be harvested.

There are still four points. 5. You can't mourn empty-handed. The whole village is mourning in vain. You can't go home empty-handed. Even three or five dollars is money. You can't wear a white hat when you go to someone's house on this day, which is unlucky for others. 6, do white things, the dutiful son does not see Fujian. Because you are a dutiful son, it will be taboo to send guests, so I won't send them in this case. 7. If there is a funeral, you can't go to other people's homes for the New Year. That is, you can't step into other people's yards during your stay in Dai Xiao, otherwise you will be gossiped by others and have a bad influence on other people's homes. 8. Don't drop in when others are cooking. Everyone cooks pasta, which means a smooth year. If one or two people become dead for no reason after you leave, they will get angry without saying anything on the surface.

As the old saying goes, distant relatives are not as close as neighbors, and relatives are getting closer? . In rural areas, people attach great importance to visits between neighbors. However, the above eight folk customs must be observed and the etiquette cannot be broken.