What does a patriarchal family look like? How can a girl get rid of a patriarchal family?

Traditionally, it is believed that the man is the master of the house and the woman is the master of the house, and the man is more demanding of economic and psychological independence, while the girl is required to be gentle and virtuous, and to be responsible for all the work. But times are different, now a lot of girls have not rely on men, their own independence to support themselves is not a problem, so you want to get rid of the family of origin, then we have to make their own voice, have a position in the family, the premise of these is that the girls themselves to be independent, do not have to be entrusted to live, then the parents to see the daughter's ability to be assured a lot of people, but also less interference. Can not achieve the desired effect of gratitude, feel owed a lot of parents a lot of debt, and then is looked down upon by the parents brother, and even the right to speak will be slowly deprived. And then you can't run away, and if you do, you'll have to take the flak of your parents' moral philosophy again.

Don't give in to this kind of family and impress your parents through your own actions. If the family's traditional concepts are serious, there is no need to go hard, do your own thing and live your own life. Parents ultimately want their children to be happy, and hope that the children can get a happy family, so we should learn to sympathize with the mood of the parents, after all, their family of origin is also unable to choose, they live in that era, were educated by the traditional concepts, so it is understandable, as long as they are good filial piety on the line. Any girl is grateful, they really don't need moral abduction.

To be assertive in all things, do not be obsequious and fearful, so that people feel well bullied. They have to be tough in their own words, have a favorite to go for, have their own independent ideas and personality, do not rely on anyone, dare to say their own views and opinions, if they are contrary to their own minds, in the case of not violating the morality, etc., dare to insist on their own ideas, for the bad thing bravely rejected. Born in the patriarchal family of origin of the girl is generally more low self-esteem, then slowly let yourself become strong, do not be a slave to emotion, learn to face life with confidence.