I want to organize a college etiquette team

First of all, I would like to give you some basic knowledge about etiquette

1, what is etiquette?

A: Etiquette refers to the behavioral norms and guidelines formed by people in social interaction activities. Specifically manifested in politeness, etiquette, instrumentation, ceremony and so on.

2. What is politeness?

A: Politeness refers to people should have in the process of mutual interaction with each other to show respect, friendly, decent temperament and demeanor.

3. What is courtesy?

A: etiquette refers to people in the process of social interaction to show respect, toast, pay tribute, greetings, condolences and other customary forms and norms.

4, what is the meter?

A: Instrumentation refers to the human appearance. Such as appearance, dress, posture and so on.

5, what is the ceremony?

A: Ceremony refers to a set of occasions, with special procedures, standardized activities. Such as award ceremony, signing ceremony, opening ceremony.

6, what are the six basic characteristics of etiquette?

Answer: ****similarity, inheritance, unity, difference, class influence, the development of the times.

7. What are the four principles of etiquette?

A: the principle of respect, the principle of compliance, the principle of moderation, the principle of self-discipline.

8. What are the four functions of etiquette?

A: communication function, coordination function, maintenance function, educational function.

9, why is China said to be "an ancient civilization, the state of etiquette"?

A: China is an ancient civilization with a long history, thousands of years to create a brilliant culture, the formation of a noble moral code, a complete code of etiquette, known as the "ancient civilization, the state of etiquette.

10, why should we pay attention to etiquette?

A: Manners is not a personal life or small things, but the reality of a country's social atmosphere, is a national spiritual civilization and an important symbol of progress.

11. What is the role of etiquette in society?

A: For the society, etiquette can improve people's moral concepts, purify the social atmosphere and improve the quality of social culture.

12. What is the role of etiquette for individuals?

A: For individuals, etiquette can build self-esteem, enhance self-esteem, self-confidence, self-love, pave the way for interpersonal communication in society, and deal with all kinds of relationships.

13, to strengthen personal self-cultivation to do what?

Answer: (1) to consciously improve personal moral cultivation; (2) to have a sense of justice and principle; (3) to care for others, respect for others, ribbing people.

14, how to cultivate self sentiment?

Answer: (1) Strengthen the study of science and culture, so that you become a knowledgeable person; (2) optimistic, cheerful and generous personality; (3) warm and sincere, understanding, kind and friendly.

15. What are the principles of making friends?

Answer: honesty and trustworthiness, goodwill to others, magnanimity, not humble.

16, what is makeup?

A: Makeup is people in politics, business, affairs and social life, cosmetics and artistic depictions to dress up their own, in order to achieve the purpose of uplifting the spirit and respect for others.

17, instrument etiquette should pay attention to what?

A: You should pay attention to the coordination of the instrument, pay attention to the color matching, pay attention to the occasion.

18, wear jewelry to pay attention to what principles?

A: No matter what kind of jewelry you wear, it must match the beauty of your body shape, face shape and clothing.

19. What is the significance of wearing rings on different fingers?

Answer: Generally speaking, wearing a ring on the index finger indicates a proposal of marriage; the middle finger indicates that you are in the middle of a passionate love affair; the ring finger indicates that you are engaged or married; the pinky finger indicates that you are celibate; and the thumb usually does not wear a ring. 20、 What are the main considerations for choosing a necklace?

A: the choice of necklaces, the price is not important, individual tube is what kind of style, and age, skin color, clothing with the coordination is the main thing.

21, explain the role of earrings in the jewelry?

Answer: In addition to the decorative role of earrings, there is protection of eyesight, prevention and treatment of eye disease, prevention and treatment of myopia.

22, choose to wear bracelets should pay attention to what?

Answer: if you only wear a bracelet, it should be worn on the left hand; when wearing two, you can wear one on each hand, can also be worn on the left hand; when wearing three, they should be worn on the left hand, can not be a hand to wear a hand, and the other hand to wear two; bracelets should be coordinated with the ring, clothing styles and unity. 23, brooch is a kind of what kind of decorations?

A: brooches are a kind of decorations that people wear on the chest, broadly speaking, brooches include pins, pins, corsages and so on.

24, choose to wear glasses should pay attention to what?

A: glasses affect the impression of the entire facial contour, selection and wear should pay attention to the shape of the frame and the face must be balanced: the frame color should be coordinated with skin color.

25. What is the role of a woman's shawl?

Answer: In addition to decoration, the shawl also has the role of coping with the big temperature difference between morning and evening.

26, the role of women's purses? Divided into several kinds?

A: Women in a variety of occasions are indispensable accessories, it has both decorative value and practicality. In terms of appearance and use can be divided into three kinds: shoulder-hanging type, flat carry type, flat take type.

27, women's clothing in the role of silk stockings?

A: a pair of beautiful stockings can set off the curves of the female leg beauty and mystery, stockings is a must-have female clothing.

28What fabric gloves can make a woman look gentle and more feminine?

A: Knitted gloves.

29. What should we pay attention to when we do handshake?

A: (1) between the upper and lower levels, the superior reached out, the lower level to reach out to shake hands; (2) elders and juniors, elders reach out to shake hands, juniors to reach out to shake hands; (3) between men and women, Ms. reached out to shake hands, men can reach out to shake hands (4) when shaking hands, men should be removed from gloves, Ms., such as the ring outside the gloves can not be removed from the gloves; (5) when shaking hands, you should reach out to the right hand, and can never be (6) the power of the handshake to grasp the moderate, neither breathless, nor too hard.

30、How can people in cross-cultural communication pay attention to the communication of silent language "gestures"?

Answer: Every country and nation has its own language and cultural practices, and the silent language varies from nation to nation. In one country or region, a gesture may be very common, while in another country or region, the gesture may be meaningless, or even have the opposite meaning. Therefore, the safest course of action for people engaged in cross-cultural communication is to "follow the customs", so as to avoid misunderstanding and getting into trouble.

31. Briefly explain the importance of hospitality etiquette.

A: ushering is the most basic form of social interaction and reception activities and important links, is to express the host friendship, reflecting the important aspects of courtesy. Especially welcome, is the most important work to give guests a good impression.

32, briefly describe the receptionist in the corridor guide method.

Answer: two or three steps before the guests, with the pace of the guests to walk on the inside. 33, briefly describe the receptionist in the stairs to guide the method.

Answer: when guiding the guests up the stairs, should let the guests walk in front, the receptionist walk behind; if it is downstairs, the receptionist should walk in front, the guests walk behind. When going up and down the stairs the receptionist should pay attention to the safety of the guests.

34, briefly describe the receptionist in the elevator guide method.

Answer: when guiding the guests to take the elevator, the receptionist should enter the elevator first and close the elevator door after the guests enter; when arriving at the elevator door by the receptionist to press open the elevator door, so that the guests out of the elevator door first.

35, briefly describe the receptionist in the living room guidance methods.

Answer: when the guest walks into the living room, the receptionist with the hand instructions, ask the guest to sit down, see the guest sit down, only after the guest nodding salute, and then leave. If the guest is mistakenly seated, the guest should be asked to change to the upper seat (the side near the door is the lower seat).

36, car etiquette in the car how to arrange the seats of the car.

Answer: If there is a chauffeur driving, the right side of the back row will be the first place, the left side will be the second, the middle seat again, the right side of the front seat will be the back, and the middle of the front row will be the last place; if the master is driving, the right side of the driver's seat will be the first place, the right side of the back row will be the second, the left side will be the second, the middle of the back row will be the unseated place, and the middle of the front row will be the unseated place, and it is not suitable to arrange the guests again.

37, ride in the car etiquette in the station wagon seat how to arrange.

Answer: the first row after the driver's seat, that is, the front row is honored, and the back row is small, and the honor of its seat decreases from the right side to the left side of each row.

38, gift etiquette in the gift should be how to choose?

Answer: one is to the recipient of the closer people to inquire to understand what the other party needs; the other is to rely on their own day-to-day observation of his hobbies, pay attention to what he said what he needs, so that the unexpected, so that he receives a long-desired, very suitable gift.

Secondly, to give you some of the significance and impact of learning etiquette

1, social etiquette education is conducive to the establishment of good interpersonal relations with others, the formation of a harmonious psychological atmosphere, and promote physical and mental health. Any social communication activities are inseparable from etiquette, and the more progress of mankind, the more social life, the more people need etiquette to regulate social life. Etiquette is a prerequisite for interpersonal communication and a key to communicative life.

With the growth of age and changes in the living environment, there is a new development of self-consciousness, and they are very eager to obtain real friendship and more emotional exchanges. Generally far from home parents, living a collective life, and other students on an equal footing, lost the previous kind of "blood", "unconditional" dependence on parents. Therefore, to gain friendship through interpersonal activities is the need to adapt to the new living environment, to develop from a "dependent" person to an "independent" person, and also the need for college students to go into the society successfully. As a matter of fact, whether one can establish good interpersonal relationship with others has a very important influence on one's growth and study. The desire for friendship and emotional exchange is an important feature of the psyche. However, there are many people who show the tendency of "self-enclosure" to varying degrees. Often appear "lonely and isolated", "no friends" emotional experience. The reasons for this situation are often multi-faceted. The more common reasons are two aspects. On the one hand, there is no real understanding of what friendship is, in the process of interpersonal communication did not really get out of the early interpersonal communication in the formation of "dependence on others", "unequal" interpersonal communication mode, in the process of interpersonal communication shows In the process of interpersonal communication, it shows the tendency of "depending on others", "using others", "individual-centeredness", and "seeking for perfection", which deviates from the principle of "selflessness and equality" of friendship. Friendship "selflessness, equality, respect" fundamental principle; on the other hand is the lack of social skills, not good at expressing their own feelings and thoughts, not good at understanding the feelings and thoughts of others, the lack of *** with the same interests and hobbies and so on, which leads to interpersonal frustration or narrow range of communication. The result of long-term development is to feel lonely and isolated, lack of friends, the formation of some psychological barriers, not conducive to the development of mental health. Let college students learn the basic norms and knowledge of social etiquette, to help students master the skills of interaction, accumulation of experience in the process of interaction will follow the principle of mutual respect, honesty and sincerity, words and deeds of moderation, you will be able to quickly get close to the object of interaction, so that they feel that you are familiar with them, understand them, respect them.

Practice shows that good interpersonal communication helps to improve college students' self-confidence and self-esteem, reduce frustration, relieve inner conflict and bitterness, vent anger, depression and pain, reduce loneliness, isolation, emptiness and compliments. These are very beneficial to the physical and mental health of college students, but also will enable college students to maximize the avoidance of bad moods, produced bad moods can be effectively discharged.

At the same time, social etiquette itself is a special language, so that college students to learn and master the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette, they can rely on it to smoothly open the door to a variety of communicative activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships. In this way, it is not only the main way to form a good social psychological atmosphere, but also has an extremely important psychological health care function for individual college students.

2, social etiquette education is conducive to promote the socialization of college students, improve the social psychological tolerance.

There are many things to learn in the process of socialization, and social etiquette education is an essential and important part of a person's socialization process. Because, etiquette is a mandatory lesson throughout the journey of life. Any person living in a certain environment of etiquette customs and norms is consciously or unconsciously bound by that etiquette. A person who consciously accepts the constraints of social etiquette is recognized as a "mature person", one who meets the requirements of society. On the other hand, if a person fails to comply with the etiquette requirements of social life, he will be regarded by the people in the society as a "heresy" that "alarms the world", and will be rejected by the people, and the society will use the means of morality and public opinion to restrain him. College students can be called "quasi-social people", but they are not yet real social people. They have a strong need to go to the society, but at the same time, there are some common psychological confusion, for example, how to deal with leaders and colleagues, how to establish good interpersonal relations, how to design self-image, how to adapt to the social life as soon as possible, and other social interaction problems. However, the social psychological tolerance of college students directly affects the quality of communication activities. A person with good psychological tolerance can always maintain a calm and stable mental state when encountering various situations and difficulties in communication activities, and quickly take the most reasonable behavior according to the information he/she possesses, so as to turn the danger into an obstacle and strive for the initiative. On the contrary, some people who lack good psychological endurance, before participating in major social activities, often panic and fear, distracted, fidgety situation, some in the beginning of social activities, and even the heartbeat, trembling limbs, speak in an abnormal tone of voice phenomenon. Then, social etiquette education for college students, so that college students master a variety of behavioral norms in line with social requirements, not only to meet the needs of college students to the community, and better promote the socialization of college students; but also to develop the ability of college students to adapt to the social life, and to improve their psychosocial resilience. 3, social etiquette education is conducive to the ideological and moral education of college students, improve the quality of ideological and moral.

At present, in many colleges and universities there exists such a phenomenon: students learn high-level moral norms, the actual behavior is often not up to the level of basic morality. This is inseparable from the lack of social etiquette education. Because, etiquette is a kind of social norms, is to adjust the members of social life in society in the mutual relations of the code of conduct. Social norms mainly include two categories: legal and non-legal norms. Etiquette is a kind of non-legal norms, which mainly includes moral norms, religious norms, customs, *** with the norms of life and so on. Among them, moral norms have a special status and role, because, it is a conscious social ideology generalized and refined from social life, which relies on social opinion, traditional habits and personal inner beliefs to maintain. Social etiquette reflects the most general moral relationship between people in *** with life, mutual interaction, is to ensure the smooth running of communication activities and social life in normal order of the important factors. Social etiquette is a discipline with strong practicality and utility. Systematic etiquette education for college students can enrich their knowledge of etiquette, let them clearly grasp the etiquette norms in line with the requirements of socialist morality, and guide them in their practical life in accordance with the norms of social etiquette to constrain their own behavior, and truly achieve "sincerity in the middle and behavior in the outside, wisdom in the heart and show in the words", to the inner moral qualities and external etiquette. The moral qualities and external forms of etiquette are organically united to become modern civilized people with high moral qualities.

4, social etiquette education is conducive to humanities knowledge education for college students, improve the humanistic quality of college students

Cultural quality education mainly refers to the humanities education to shape and cultivate the inner character and cultivation of college students, that is, to shape college students with a noble spirit and high quality of the cultural realm. Humanities education has an obvious edifying function. It acts on people's emotional state, influences and changes people's values, outlook on life, personality, etc. The ultimate goal is to make college students learn to get along with others and learn to be civilized people. Nowadays, it is generally believed that humanistic quality education permeates literature, art, history and culture, philosophy, ethics and other disciplines. And social etiquette education covers the cultural education and moral education of Chinese nation. It can be seen that social etiquette education can more directly teach college students how to get along with others and how to be civilized people. Therefore, "social etiquette" class should be completely can be included in the humanistic quality education in colleges and universities among the courses, as a mandatory course for college students, in colleges and universities to promote and popularize, which will help college students' humanistic quality education to the ground. 5, social etiquette and is conducive to strengthening the civilized behavior of college students, improve the quality of civilization, and promote the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.

Social etiquette education is the most basic content of socialist spiritual civilization education system. Because being civilized and polite is the actual embodiment of the degree of people's spiritual civilization. Popularizing and applying the knowledge of etiquette is the need to strengthen the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Through the education of social etiquette, college students can make it clear that speech, manner, instrument and dress can reflect a person's ideological cultivation, civilized degree and spiritual outlook. However, the degree of civilization of each person is not only related to his or her own image, but also affects the spiritual outlook of the whole school and even the spiritual civilization of the whole society. Through social etiquette education, we can further improve the etiquette of college students, cultivate their practical ability to deal with social rewards and answers, and develop good etiquette habits and basic civilized upbringing. Let the flower of civilization open everywhere on our campus. If everyone speaks manners, our society will be full of harmony and warmth. It can be seen that the fundamental goal of social etiquette is to educate and guide all citizens to consciously follow the moral norms of socialist politeness and the corresponding forms of social etiquette, to raise people's awareness of civilization, to develop the habit of civilized behavior, to promote the formation of good social customs, so that between people, between people and society to achieve a high degree of harmony and order, and strive to promote the improvement of the degree of spiritual civilization of the whole society.

Responders: jiangss1149 - Jianghu Xinxiu Grade 4 11-26 20:40

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